Ladies: a deep, maybe too personal question. I know i am not the only one who has these thoughts

For the ladies. I am curious about something. Maybe its too personal. You dont have to talk about it.

Have you ever had a client that you liked more than a client. Somebody you thought in the real world would be a guy you would date?

If so, what do you do?

Stop seeing him, making up excuses?
Tell him the truth?
Keep seeing him and see what could develop?

I know much of this depends on his relationship status, etc.

Or maybe i just like the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" too much? Lol
xomissmiab's Avatar
👀 I’m thinking this might be powder room material lol
My first escort married one of her clients and moved to Atlanta.
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  • IQ160
  • 09-10-2018, 11:30 PM
Ah, yes. Wish it would have worked out.
Go for it. YOLO

For the ladies. I am curious about something. Maybe its too personal. You dont have to talk about it.

Have you ever had a client that you liked more than a client. Somebody you thought in the real world would be a guy you would date?

If so, what do you do?

Stop seeing him, making up excuses?
Tell him the truth?
Keep seeing him and see what could develop?

I know much of this depends on his relationship status, etc.

Or maybe i just like the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" too much? Lol Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna
Gawd I hope it’s me.
This I believe happens quite often. I'd say go with it. Best case is it's the starts a beautiful friendship, worse case you lose of client. Low risk, high rewards.
This happens to me all the time!
I see a girl and boom!
Now shes all over me....
I would agree with Bill. If you feel that strong about him go for. I have been in same place regret it didn't work for me and have been sorry about it since. MOST INPORTANT BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER AND TRUST EACH ORTHER COMPLETELY. That's my 2 cents. Good luck.
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I'm a guy, so what do I know...

I say go for it. Humans do enough self-sabotage over our relationships, finding stupid reasons not to date people we would otherwise like. Don't don't look for excuses to find more of them.
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I’ve known of two occasions where this has happened in KC. One was well known, at the time, the other, not so much. I can remember the name of the second, unknown, but not the first.

The second obviously did not last long! She posted here with “I’m back” ads but service fell off a cliff so the service didn’t last long either. I have VERY fond memories, read wet dreams, of the second one.

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For the ladies. Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna
Well Sweetie...you did get one response from one of the "ladies" LOL....and nine more from some of the girls....
I married a client.

But yes, this is a powder room topic...
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the only way id ever get married or date anyone is a client-crossover! Just be honest and see if the feelings go both ways. If not, just stick to agreed upon boundaries. Dont play head games with yourself. Its no bueno. <3
Huh. Thats a great point! Dont most boyfriends frown on the job she does?