He-said/She-said Perspective Project

I'm looking for a provider and a hobbyist for a sociological experiment: Our interpretations of encounters are vastly different, to the extent that if a provider were to read a review by a hobbyist, she might not recognize anything from their encounter but her name!

I want to follow the contacts between the two, ride along with the hobbyist, video record the encounter (as a non-participant), and then have all three of us write a review of the experience as best we can recall, then test our memories against the footage.

I think it will be really interesting to see how the different parties interpreted the event, and fodder for some interesting conversation on the board (thus posting in Co-ed instead of ISO). The point really is to admit that our memories are fallible and appreciate that our perspectives can be very different and yet both positive. This may also give us some insight on effective review writing both above the fold and in the ROS

To apply, PM 3daygetaway. Applicants must be prepared to write a review in detail about contact (booking, directions, etc), appearances living up to expectations(physical, location, bedroom), passion/IOP, activities completed (not in great detail, but in sequence and frequency), and demeanor throughout. And obviously, be willing to be filmed and proven wrong by the tape!

Can I get some volunteers, please?

Is your production company picking up expenses ? If so I'm in , I was born a
porn star .

I'm sorry, I should have thought to include cost...answer: No. I am looking to follow a hobbyist on a trip he was already willing to take. Now, that being said, we may get a provider who is prepared to volunteer her time for this project.

Likely, what will happen is the interested provider will be contacted by an interested guy and ask him if he is interested in the project, and perhaps offer a confidence-boosting discount.

Indeed if your paying for the session then I see perhaps a few possible "Volunteers" raising their hands.

I personally would never allow some unknown 3rd party to video record me in a BCD session with a provider free or not.

If it is truly research regarding individual interpretation then
a) there is no need for a video left in your possession.
b) The project cost should be covered by the researcher. Getting the provider to pay through discount is no different than the monger paying for your project.

Otherwise this could be interpreted as nothing more than a monger looking for a freebie voyeur experience plus a bonus video to add to his collection.

I'm sorry, I should have thought to include cost...answer: No. I am looking to follow a hobbyist on a trip he was already willing to take. Now, that being said, we may get a provider who is prepared to volunteer her time for this project.

Likely, what will happen is the interested provider will be contacted by an interested guy and ask him if he is interested in the project, and perhaps offer a confidence-boosting discount. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Sorry man , I'm a porn star , and I don't do freebies

No, not a professional researcher, or interested in keeping the evidence...just interested in developing POSITIVE board conversation, as opposed to the derision seen lately.

Thanks for help in further clarifying the mission!

Indeed if your paying for the session then I see possible "Volunteers" coming your way.
I personally would in no way in hell allow some unknown 3rd party video record me in a BCD session with a provider free or not.
If it is truly research regarding individual interpretation then
a) there is no need for a video left in your possession.
b) The session cost should be covered by the researcher.

Otherwise this could be interpreted as nothing more than a monger looking for a freebie voyeur experience with a bonus video to add to his collection. Originally Posted by Codybeast

Not sure this would work, remember this is all a fanticy, if you want to document if a hobbyist puts Greek in the activities of a provider that does not offer Greek then maybe you are getting somewhere. But in the fanticy world each has a different prospective of the same thing, or event, but hey, I will get the DVD when it comes out.

IB

if you want to document if a hobbyist puts Greek in the activities of a provider that does not offer Greek then maybe you are getting somewhere. IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

I'm thinking more like "She was moaning and groaning and saying she really wanted my cock" vs. "I asked him if he was ready to put on the condom and insert, vaginally."

or

She says "booking and directions were no problem;" he says, "I called 6 times from the area before she answered and gave more vague directions to the apartment, then I had to call again for the specific apartment number as I did a 360 degree turn in the parking lot."

Hey, whut if'n the Provider is a tranny? Is it still He said/She said? Or is it He said/(S)he said? Or just He said/He said? Ima askin' fer a friend.

I'm thinking more like "She was moaning and groaning and saying she really wanted my cock" vs. "I asked him if he was ready to put on the condom and insert, vaginally." Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Isn't that technicaly the same thing?

IB

Isn't that technicaly the same thing?

IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

You're kidding, right?
If A=B, and B=C, A does not necessarily equal C!

You're kidding, right?
If A=B, and B=C, A does not necessarily equal C! Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Yes I am kidding, got a few hours to kill

Cary on

IB

Sounds interesting...If I was.comfy being filmed.I would do

i hear the camera adds 10lbs.
my dick would be HUGE!!!!!

...Just to be clear; I'm not suggesting the film be made public--just a record with which to compare. I would watch the video and transcribe what happened play-by-play.