For those who believe in true equality of the sexes

Is it ok to hit a woman in the exact same circumstances you'd hit a man?

No way!!!

as far as I am concerned no-one should go round hitting anyone. But I believe that if you are a woman and you hit a man don't expect him not to hit you back as you shouldn't lash out at him in the first place. Don't hit anyone and not expect retaliation

I donot believe in violence in any circumstances

No hitting allowed

Is it ok to hit a woman in the exact same circumstances you'd hit a man? Originally Posted by gulflover

Never in a million years. Not even if she hits you first, not even if she kicked your ass, not even if she called your mama a bunch of bad names. I would say the only time you should ever even put your hands on a woman is to maybe restrain her if she is hitting you. But that's just how I was raised.

Now cock smacking a chick is completely acceptable if she is willing to have little mushroom shaped marks all over her face. Lol

No way should any man hit a woman unless it is a little love smack on the back side. But to hit a lady in anger is not acceptable in any shape form or fashion even if she hits you.

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only if she asks me to cuz she's into that sorta kinky shit

My spin on this is simple, she takes a swing at me, deflect and disarm. neutralize the attack to till they see that continuing it useless

Um, we are all humans, we make mistakes but we should all accept the consequences of our actions.

Um, we are all humans, we make mistakes but we should all accept the consequences of our actions. Originally Posted by anita

Yes we should... that is why you do not hit back.... they hit you 1st you can try to stop them and then file assault charges.

Yes I Know that is extreme but if they hit you first, then they get to ride downtown... they might not go through processing, but they will get a nice "chill out time"

Point is this, all things are equal under the law....

WELL........
Depends.... Before I start, the disclaimer...

This is my opinion, and if you don't agree, fine, you are not me. If I piss you off, fine, what ya gonna do? If I offend you, fine, get over it. If I have hit you, you probaly deserved it, or need to highten those reflex's.

Hitting Chics 101

In a world where chics hit 1st, and I have, I expect a fight, meaning you hit NEXT!
SO, if she hits you, knock the shit out of her. But with equal strength that she used to hit you, do not exhibit more than that. or you are not engaging in a equal fight, but beating her.
this is the only circumstance i expect to be hit, if i hit you. I am aggressive, and if you did not get in where you fit in and get that next lick, I would whip your ass! Now, i usually am, the first to throw down, and the element of surprise and a rough life have helped me get out of some crazy shit. I am all about respect, and it takes alot to take me to this level, and very few in my life have. in fact I have never been in a fight with a girl. i will STFU now

WELL........
Depends.... Before I start, the disclaimer...

This is my opinion, and if you don't agree, fine, you are not me. If I piss you off, fine, what ya gonna do? If I offend you, fine, get over it. If I have hit you, you probaly deserved it, or need to highten those reflex's.

Hitting Chics 101

In a world where chics hit 1st, and I have, I expect a fight, meaning you hit NEXT!
SO, if she hits you, knock the shit out of her. But with equal strength that she used to hit you, do not exhibit more than that. or you are not engaging in a equal fight, but beating her.
this is the only circumstance i expect to be hit, if i hit you. I am aggressive, and if you did not get in where you fit in and get that next lick, I would whip your ass! Now, i usually am, the first to throw down, and the element of surprise and a rough life have helped me get out of some crazy shit. I am all about respect, and it takes alot to take me to this level, and very few in my life have. in fact I have never been in a fight with a girl. i will STFU now Originally Posted by bestoralntexas

This is not a good idea.

If you hit back, use 1.25 or 1.50 times the force to let them know that they can either continue and get hurt or stop and walk away.

It is called a "Proportional response" and most people out there will take a step back when they are met with slightly greater force / power than what they dished out.

I guess I am from a different generation, the one that says, "men do not hit women, period".

lol this should be a fun thread

Um, we are all humans, we make mistakes but we should all accept the consequences of our actions. Originally Posted by anita

as far as I am concerned no-one should go round hitting anyone. But I believe that if you are a woman and you hit a man don't expect him not to hit you back as you shouldn't lash out at him in the first place. Don't hit anyone and not expect retaliation

I donot believe in violence in any circumstances Originally Posted by Escortbunny69

Yes but a man should not be hitting a woman.
A man cannot use the same force you used to hit him
because he is physically stronger than you are.
If he feels his life is in danger he should walk if not
run away and CALL THE POLICE!

WELL........
Depends.... Before I start, the disclaimer...

This is my opinion, and if you don't agree, fine, you are not me. If I piss you off, fine, what ya gonna do? If I offend you, fine, get over it. If I have hit you, you probaly deserved it, or need to highten those reflex's.

Hitting Chics 101

In a world where chics hit 1st, and I have, I expect a fight, meaning you hit NEXT!
SO, if she hits you, knock the shit out of her. But with equal strength that she used to hit you, do not exhibit more than that. or you are not engaging in a equal fight, but beating her.
this is the only circumstance i expect to be hit, if i hit you. I am aggressive, and if you did not get in where you fit in and get that next lick, I would whip your ass! Now, i usually am, the first to throw down, and the element of surprise and a rough life have helped me get out of some crazy shit. I am all about respect, and it takes alot to take me to this level, and very few in my life have. in fact I have never been in a fight with a girl. i will STFU now Originally Posted by bestoralntexas

I am shocked.

I have never seen a woman encourage a man to hit another woman. "Knock the shit out of her" are you kidding me? Bestoraloftexas, This is telling. I didn't expect this from you. I guess it's the kind of men that you are used to but where I'm from this is an "Oh hell no".

As a woman, I understand there are ways to settle a dispute without doing physical harm. I also understand that most men are stronger than I am so if anything I will do everything I can to settle a dispute without hitting.

I was also raised not to hit a man though I slapped an ex once. He took one look at me and walked out of the room.

A man in such situation should just walk away NOT hit back. He should also call the police if he felt his life was threatened. It is very easy for a woman to put a man under the jail.. lol. I would never encourage a man to hit another woman. That's nuts!