I don't think the verbage is the important part of this. I'll call it whatever she prefers, as long as she bends me over and puts her big cock in my ass and knows how to work it. There are a lot of amateur providers that provide fetish fun like this because it is popular, but they aren't very good at it....
My wife and I enjoyed some kinky lifestyle until she had a surgery that killed every inkling of pleasure for her.
She knew I needed some fun and gave me her blessing to okay, as ling as it wasn't in our hometown and I didn't get caught it catch something.
The only thing I could think of that I considered "not cheating" was pegging.
I found a provider in Houston that took care of me monthly.
Fantastic price for 30 mins.
I didn't always last 30 mins, sometimes she made me tap out early.
2 years of pegging and then she found a SO and it was over.
Now I just find a nice nature lady to spend some quality time with monthly.
It was always called pegging to me.
It was a pain in the ass the first few months, then it progressively got better.
Don't know what made me try it.
I don't crave it or seek it any longer, but when a provider wants to try it out, I never turn them down.
Love my new harness! Gives me such great control. I love the word pegging. Especially when I get a submissive to tell me that that's my pussy (man pussy) to do with as I please and to plow deep while I tease their little clitty. Good times. Usually the verbiage "strap on play" is said by men or women I see who can not own up to that they enjoy the feeling of all of it. Just my experience.
I have a feeling most guys that are into this are happy to call it whatever the lady wearing it wants it called. Want me to call it a lawnmower? Ok as you wish!!
Pegging certainly seems to be the more direct wording these days...I agree Kiley, pegging seems to be the most appropriate. Wish I could find my way to her part of the county to experience hers. Heading to Vegas soon and hoping to find someone experienced in pegging out there.
They're kind of different in a sense. Pegging refers to a woman assfucking a guy, and is relatively recent. Women together are involved with strap-on play. Strap-on play can also refer to other things a man can do with a strap-on, outside of being fucked with it (sucking, fondling, just the rush of his Domme wearing one).
When I first started, I called it "strapping", or "being strapped". But some thought I meant being hit with a strap, so pegging works better. I like strap-on play because it encompasses all types of toy play.
Yea I kinda agree with papadee.
I have tried it twice with 1 provider and once with another. But (so far) I'm not a fan of it. no matter what you want to call it. My cock goes soft and it don't matter what she does there is no revival.
Must be just me or the provider hasn't done it properly? I duno!
Just can't say I wana try again!