Thinking about leaving the hobby

do you guys ever get burned out sometimes with the hobby? all the ghosting and bs that comes along with it? im thinking about taking a break or maybe overall just stopping. ive met several girls over the month that are now like local FWB and best thing is its free!! lol. just looking if anyone else has thought about this or am i crazy for thinking this way?
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The sugar-baby route would be my preferred way to go. Hell, if the gulf coast had a selection of FBSM providers (non-AMP), I'd hobby 4-5 times as much as I do now
It's the dark side of life. That's what you should expect with a welcome exception now and then. Why would a female do it? Not with your best interests in mind. Just the brutal truths.
Im right there with you. Waste a whole day trying to meet. Then when you finally go about your business they texts a d then say you wasted their time
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i tried the Sugar baby life but it is more of a big city option. I dont care for bar shopping.
At what point does one decide they are "in the hobby". I've always looked at it like an oil change. Just service paid for. Emotion is usually by happenstance but always fleeting. That's not a hobby to me. Whatever floats one's boat.
Speaking of leaving the hobby, before I even consider that, I want to meet with a gal with nice D or E cups, perfect booty, small waist, great personality, smells good, and beautiful face Just one more time. Prefer about 35 years young, don't care about hair color.

Anybody meeting that simple description, just pm me and it will be fun. How hard is that now?
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Speaking of leaving the hobby, before I even consider that, I want to meet with a gal with nice D or E cups, perfect booty, small waist, great personality, smells good, and beautiful face Just one more time. Prefer about 35 years young, don't care about hair color.

Anybody meeting that simple description, just pm me and it will be fun. How hard is that now? Originally Posted by roadcourse
Vanessa Ink would be just about that, only younger
I left the hobby and just now came back with this username. Some of you may remember by previous username- TylerAnon or anonymousTyler or something like that.

The landscape sure has changed and I feel like I am starting over since I’ve lost all my contacts. I’m not even sure I want to jump back in but I miss some of the fun. Had good times with The Unicorn, Ellie Alexandra, Skyler, among lots of others.

If anybody remembers me feel free to drop a line.
I left the hobby and just now came back with this username. Some of you may remember by previous username- TylerAnon or anonymousTyler or something like that.

The landscape sure has changed and I feel like I am starting over since I’ve lost all my contacts. I’m not even sure I want to jump back in but I miss some of the fun. Had good times with The Unicorn, Ellie Alexandra, Skyler, among lots of others.

If anybody remembers me feel free to drop a line. Originally Posted by Justpractice
Yeah, I remember anonymousTyler lol
Lol. I see you’re still going strong War Eagle.
i have went back and forth myself. i get frustrated with most these ladies that have the communication skills of a 5 yr old. the ones are reliable typically dont match what i want as far as looks or talent. however i jave a very narrow niche for what I want/need to be satisfied. i had one and she disappeared about a year and a half ago. in the mean time i joinded a local "kink" club and man that has been even more stressful but thays a whole other discussion. i slayed while i was active in that and retained a few good ladies to meet with but sometimes just dropping a couple hundred and going about my way is so much easier.
I've thought about leaving the hobby myself. With Allie (SPA) moved, Bambi disappearing, and Skylar being flakey the local scene has died for me. My last 2 dates were Allie back in Sept and one while I was on vacation in Nov out of town. It's been extremely dry for me.
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With the exception Of SPA, north Alabama has always been hobby purgatory for me. I let my funds stack until I make a trip to Atlanta and Houston then my itch gets scratched. Sometimes I wonder if these low tier women are charging by the pound or by the aggravation factor. Either way the outcome is the same, this hobby thing of ours is in a sorry state these days.
The hobby as we once knew it seems to be long gone a thing of the past. There is almost zero decent talent around anymore and the traveling ladies seem to have disappeared too. I don't think we have to think about leaving the hobby I think the hobby left is a long time ago and if a decent talent does show up some white knight tries to make them think they care about them and just sets them up as their personal side chick....