Do working girls care about looks of their clients?

I've lost some fat, gained some muscle and got a new haircut. My sessions have been better and more intense versus when I was skinny fat with a bad haircut.

I always thought they should just provide good level of service to everyone no matter the clients looks.

Sounds like lookism is very real, even amongst people who are paid to fake intimacy.

Sometimes when people improve their looks it boosts their confidence level so maybe you feel better about yourself while with a provider and maybe it has nothing to do with the provider herself at all. Sometimes the chemistry between two people is very important as well. Not all people will have the same chemistry. Just my opinion. Awesome that you made an improvement because regardless of a session with a provider, you should always feel good about yourself for yourself.

Sometimes when people improve their looks it boosts their confidence level so maybe you feel better about yourself while with a provider and maybe it has nothing to do with the provider herself at all. Sometimes the chemistry between two people is very important as well. Not all people will have the same chemistry. Just my opinion. Awesome that you made an improvement because regardless of a session with a provider, you should always feel good about yourself for yourself. Originally Posted by Peyton Daniella

I disagree. I really do think girls care about looks and men care about personality of a woman

Well I'll agree to disagree. I hope that everything works out for you while hobbying. Xo

The more bengies you present the better looking you become. As the late Miss State football coach said "if I had a dollar for every woman who found me unattractive they would soon find me attractive."

Looks don't matter to me at all,
What I care about is how are we going to click ,when alone together and we agree on how the session will go, as both parties agree to what services I provide and the services you are looking for and how the session plays out.. Both parties being Comfortable !

Every one needs to be on the same page ..

ksalter,
i think this is where you're going down the wrong logic path:
"... I always thought they should just provide good level of service to everyone no matter the clients looks. ..."

there's "should" and there's "reality".
just cos you think they "should" do/think whatever does not mean it's gonna be like that.

providers see who they want and can deny/not take an appt as they choose.


all of which is very separate (but can be related to) from a person's appearance.

bottom line, if you meet up, enjoy yourself and your "date".

I don't think that providers care about looks. Gorgeous stud of a man is not going to be paying a provider so if she waits for a guy that looks like that, she's not going to make any money!

Providers today have an ideal client who does not have any preference as far as the service goes, she wants him to just take whatever he can get and pay full price for it. If a guy lets a provider know what he likes in a session he pays for, even if she can PROVIDE what he likes without any difficulty, then he is considered a possible difficult client so there is no way there will be any type of compatibility.

If you are old, fat, bald and/or ugly, it does not matter. What matters is that you have the proper donation, practice good hygiene and do not mind going with the flow and hope for the best.

My sessions have been better and more intense versus when I was skinny fat with a bad haircut. Originally Posted by 123ksalter

I seem to recall just about everything being better when I was physically fit versus unfit, but I've had a wide range of body weight / fitness levels. I've seen research and surveys suggest (for example):
- self esteem matters
- extra weight lowers sex hormone levels
- high cholesterol might raise the risk of ED and impotence

Would you clarify? You seem to hint at, say, higher provider excitement.

Not all people will have the same chemistry. Originally Posted by Peyton Daniella

I would love to know if anyone has felt the difference with the same provider or client.

I can currently only speak to my civilian life. I won't attest to my own physical attractiveness other than saying I'm tall (which is measurable). Attentiveness felt the most effective out of what I tried, though. I mean paying attention and being responsive. Figure out what they want so you can give it to them (even if they don't know they want it). With one partner, a single line of dirty talk making her feel wanted got me further than anything else I had done by a mile.

They are professionals. Professionals don’t let something so trivial get in they way of being good at what they do. I’m sure a rocked up 140lb, 26 year would be more enjoyable, but professionals are more worried about your enjoyment than theirs.

Depends on your connection and personality. I’ve dated several providers and became very close.

One thing I miss from "the good ol days" is the socials. I quickly realized there wasn't much of a bar for us Johns - most seemed to be really old, really fat or both... or at the least socially inept.

The women on the whole were mostly average to above in looks and HWP. There were "specialists" like Infamous BJ (guess what hers was) and Loving Kayla (world's reigning sensual masseuse) - probably 400-500 pounds between the two of them. There were also a fair number of stunners (IMHO) that merited the high-end pricing of the day - Laney Von, Shea, Reese that seem to be totally missing today.

Back on topic, the way all of the women handled the men in this environment made me think they were very accepting of a wide range of ages, looks & weight, united on a common love of a fee. Not too many stories about "she fucked me for nothing" on these pages then, or now.

One thing I miss from "the good ol days" is the socials. I quickly realized there wasn't much of a bar for us Johns - most seemed to be really old, really fat or both... or at the least socially inept.

The women on the whole were mostly average to above in looks and HWP. There were "specialists" like Infamous BJ (guess what hers was) and Loving Kayla (world's reigning sensual masseuse) - probably 400-500 pounds between the two of them. There were also a fair number of stunners (IMHO) that merited the high-end pricing of the day - Laney Von, Shea, Reese that seem to be totally missing today. Originally Posted by mtabsw

Yeah I miss socials too! Met lots of good hobbyists and good providers, some that I would have never got a session with if not for the socials.

IMHO, good providers do not care about looks/build as long as you treat them decent and not stink or whatever.

They are professionals. Professionals don’t let something so trivial get in they way of being good at what they do. I’m sure a rocked up 140lb, 26 year would be more enjoyable, but professionals are more worried about your enjoyment than theirs. Originally Posted by Cowboys1960

Wouldn't they want to have their cake and eat it too?

They are professionals. Professionals don’t let something so trivial get in they way of being good at what they do. I’m sure a rocked up 140lb, 26 year would be more enjoyable, but professionals are more worried about your enjoyment than theirs. Originally Posted by Cowboys1960

Then we do not have very many professionals anymore. It is definitely not about what the client desires from a session he pays for, as guys who let providers know what they like are considered difficult and hard to please, but rather she wants a guy who will accept just a go with the flow type of session. Then ironically, if you did not have a great time, her excuse is she cannot read your mind.

Most of the providers of today believe that just because a guy got a nut that she gave him a fantastic experience and better get a great review written on her.

If you believe anything a provider puts in her ad or that she tells you in communications with her to get you to set the appointment, then you deserve what you get. Then whenever you have a so-so time or worse, she will claim compatibility issues. And just remember, just because she gives you a half-hearted time, she still gets paid 100% of her donation fee.