Personal information

What is the opinions of sharing personal information ( email or cell number) with a provider that you are interested in seeing?

My personal opinion is that putting real life information out always has a possibility of back firing on you at some time.

I only dabble on this site and P411 and feel relatively comfortable using my disposable phone as well as what I think of as my hobby email. I have drawn the line recently when a woman on this site asked for a photo I’d and proof of employment, w-2 etc.

I only dabble on this site and P411 and feel relatively comfortable using my disposable phone as well as what I think of as my hobby email. I have drawn the line recently when a woman on this site asked for a photo I’d and proof of employment, w-2 etc. Originally Posted by greyghost48

Wow, that’s way too much. Look I know your name isn’t legally **HotBigTitBlonde** that’s fine. I don’t care to learn your real name. I don’t ask for your drivers license, next of kin, or emergency contact. I’m not showing any provider my drivers license or the name of my employer. I’ve seen some great providers, who I’m sure will gladly sing my praises and provide a reference. If that’s not good enough than I’ll just go back to see one of them. Which reminds me, holy hell I miss Sexi~Rose out of PCB.

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I don’t care to learn your real name. I don’t ask for your drivers license, next of kin, or emergency contact. I’m not showing any provider my drivers license or the name of my employer

And I agree with GreyGhost. If they start asking for a photo of me, etc., that line has been drawn!

Couple of years ago, had a date arranged with a provider. On the drive to her incall, she asked for my tag number and a description of my vehicle. Hell no! Line drawn, date cancelled!

If you're a newbie, I can understand a lady asking for a bit more info. However, a reputable provider knows how to screen with minimal intrusion. But when you have references there should be no need for invasive requests for pics, employment info, etc. The pic/dick pic thing is massively bad on STG. Don't know who gave the ladies that advise, but it won't save a provider from getting busted. Art I agree with you, if references from ladies won't cut it, I'll move on.

IF you're mature enough to be in this adult lifestyle. You ought to be wise enough to HAVE a HOBBY email and cheap throw away HOBBY phone.

If any guy is too dog gone LAZY to set up those 2 simple things to use as means of hobby communication. And YOU disclose your rw info and it bites you in the ass in the end.
NO ONE to blame but yourself.

And I agree with others. No fucking way, should any guy give up any rw info to any provider. I don't give a fuck how almighty they *think* they are. They have an agenda in the longrun, with YOUR personal data.

So use HOBBY RELATED INFO. It's fucking simple/quick to set up.


A handle and reference isn't sufficient screening.
First name, hobby email, hobby phone, complete physical description/age along with references.
Is THE proper way to provide screening.
As many ladies communicate with you men via different means. So Have all those hobby means of communication in your screening. As a way for your references to confirm with the new lady you wish to meet.

It's that darn simple!