I was at an outdoor event last weekend. I was standing alone. An attractive lady wearing tight workout pants walks past and stands about 10 feet in front of me. At some point she starts bending over and touching her toes. Is it possible that she wanted me to look at her? Or did she decide it was just a good time for a nice stretch? I was thinking about talking to her but another lady that knows me and my SO came up and started talking to me. Then the stretching lady left.
I learned a very important lesson today myself- just go for it. I guess in your case go for it but be discreet and careful not to get caught. My philosophy is if you're willing to chat on your SO then there's probably a better match for you somewhere in the world
always marry someone on the same page as you !