I know some men don't view us with alot of respect..lust yes..but not alot of respect....and in all fairness some providers don't respect the men....but I do things the way I do because I chose to and not saying it is right or wrong but I add respect and a personlized aspect...I also must add that for the most part I have been very lucky with the gentlemen I have encountered but this man really gave new meaning to dinner date and it was a great and refreshing change and I hope every provider has the opportunity to have a date like this....so to the gentleman I say thank you
Originally Posted by Irish Vixen
I agree there are some men that really know how to make a woman feel appreciated, cared for, like an equal, embracing their humanity. It's a wonderful feeling.
Over the years I have worked hard to show my appreciation to such gentlemen in personalized ways. Show caring when they have a bad day, keep in touch just because they're awesome people, not because I'm hoping for another date, open up a little and allow myself to be vulnerable with them. Give them consideration when they need it. It's important they know how much their emotional generosity and kindness means. When they feel appreciated, I find they stick around.
Over time I found enough of those gentlemen, that I can afford to say no to them men who lust, but don't actually give a damn. It took nearly five years to find enough gems, but once I had reached that point, they totally changed how I experienced Companionship and day to day life. I now approach this world from the view that I am carefully looking for that kind of gentlemen companion, so that I can devote a great deal of energy to them, and surround myself with warm hearts, safe arms and beautiful souls.
I hope you find more, I hope your career is one day filled with them.