Just curious?

But how common is it for people to message you and talk this big game but come down to it they don’t show. Or heck even give you a courtesy message?? Is that actually common?

It's quite common.

Well it shouldn’t be!

Happens with providers also. Should be more respect both ways.

Yep,its common

Well I literally just had another one do it. With the understanding that I can’t always host!? He messaged me weeks ago to set it up for today! Messaged asking me where and what would be a good meet and greet! Well I said I could just come to him no issue. (I don’t make multiple appointments in one day) so I didn’t want to get a room to hang out in just for an hour and leave!? Sooo I said I’d just come to him and that would be that!? Well all of the sudden it’s to complicated and he’s getting a bad feeling!? Really!?? You. You have no reviews nothing and I do but you’re getting uncomfortable with the meet and I agreed to come to you without question. Geeezzz this is why I am getting annoyed with the hobby!

Well I assure you I don’t stand people up! I think it’s ridiculous to do so. But I’ve had more stand ups, and no call no shows then actually hanging out with people! I’m trying so hard to give this a good go but it’s getting harder to keep my patience with people being so rude!

Sweets...said gent messaged you weeks ago setting things up? Now...if it was that long ago...he did the right thing. Sound like you had a definite winner if he prebooked as that happens rarely.

If a Gent gives advanced notice it is our job to uphold the agreement and have an established location for them to come to on the day that they ask for. It also gives us ample time to get screening out of the way and establish some sort of rapport with one another a couple of times over the phone to iron out all of the wrinkles or questions that one may have.

Life happens. And all that.

But if I tell you that I want Friday at 7 PM on the 30th of February 3 years from now, I will be there exactly at 7 PM.

Or have a damn good excuse and will convey the information as soon as possible, hopefully days before.


That is how I want to be treated, so that is how I treat others.

I loved the big heads up it was very appreciated but as we had spoke on numerous occasions and I told him the situation and time frames that were good for me. He was “in the know” lol and we also talked more and apparently it was a miscommunication on the whole thing lol but when it came down to it he had a sudden issue with it!? And we also come to an arrangement that worked for the both of us, so it definitely worked itself out for the best. Idk I had another one last night set up for this morning and he did a no call no show even with me messaging him to see if he was still moving forward anameingulfport that’s the way it should be. Lol when someone prebooks me I ask them to send me a courtesy message as a reminder for one and two as I know that they’re still going to keep the appointment! I don’t get mad or anything if you cancel I get angry if you just completely ghost me. And my customer service voice is starting to get shaky lmao 😂 cause I don’t like being stood up! 🙄😫😭