~Butt Sex~. ((for you Mr. Chan))

I love how some people can write with such poise and rhythm that it almost sounds as if your reading a fine tuned song... I find that in most of Chan Mans post- which are quite entertaining so props to you little buddy.. When I read your name I can only picture a naked China Man jumping out of the trunk of a car like in the movie Hangover.

..I do need to apologize to mr chan for using his name in the title.. I was just told I would sale more copies with your name.. And.. I do understand there is a copy right infringement which I am willing to deal with. Please don't "SUE"- this is a nonprofit thread.
I just wrote this to accommodate a dumbed down thread for entertainment purposes.... Since~ Arkansas had such a hard time finding new topics with out the hero warrior guy or who ever the fuck he is- And all the out of state folks chiming in on your Arkansas threads- I will kindly extend my thread for your thread... Much love to you Mr. Chan-- BTW, Im a big fan of your writings, you should create a book on the crazy shit we hobby players post.

To all evil providers in Arkansas.. BTW- I love you all- who the hell needs a provider that is not evil anyhow? I can get that shit at home or with a preachers wife!!

1.) Wow, I feel like I just walked through Bullshit to get to this one stupid question, or multiple questions pertaining to the same concept or idea of the exact same thing...


What's the truth behind Anal? I mean really,, does it feel good or not? Does adding slight pressure around the hole with a thumb increase your pleasure? Do most women deny anal because of the thought?? ...What works best? Adding some fingers during vaginal intercourse? At one time I pounced on my SO and went in for some anal action~ very slow ~ at first but she just couldn't take it~ she wouldn't even take it in half way.. Is there a point you must get through before it feels great or is it just never going to happen for some???


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Check out: http://www.amazon.com/Arouse-Her-Ana.../dp/0615399142

A great book. Good exercises. Good preliminary steps.

From my experience, some girls like it more than others. But in most all cases, it takes some work and enticement to get ready. The book above describes a process lasting weeks that slowly introduces a girl to anal ecstasy. I have been with a couple of girls who have vaginal orgasms from anal sex.... a very nice touch.

I've tried it. I don't much care for it. Just not my thing!

In the words of my dear provider " anal? Sure, bend over and I will do you first" ..... changed my mind.

Although since I ramped that Shwinn bicycle with the bannana seat off the community building in Amarillo 1978, I cringe at the thought of extreme pressure to the posterior .

Scott

I've done it a few times. It's a different feeling with your dick in her ass. I've only known two ladies that kinda liked it and one that had an O from it. What I've found about anal is your dick has to be fully hard to enter and for me before I cum 1st time.

In the words of my dear provider "anal? Sure, bend over and I will do you first" ..... Originally Posted by sdeveroe

Excellent response. I'm stealing that.

The following is my opinion so take it for what is worth. Butt sex is one of my favorite topics and my favorite fetish! Much like hobbying it requires much research if u want to do it right. When u have the knowledge and the experience that will come with that research then u will be able to open new doors to you and your partners sex lives. I have had maybe 1 or 2 so's in my life that would not let me do this to them and not all like it and will add it to the repertoire but most will and some discovered something that like very much!

If you are a good and compassionate lover in other areas then they will maybe go that extra step further to allowing entrance into their hallowed hall! If u r trying to talk someone into it then it is all about timing and making them think about wanting to do it without asking them to do it. Maybe a gentle rub here and there, some pressure on it at the right instant and maybe a tounge lashing or a little penetration at the right time. If u have them all hot and bothered and bring it up at that time u might get the desired response u r looking for. The research is all out there and u can't learn too much in my opinion. Butt sex is as much about domination and someone being subservient to their lover as it is about pleasure, yes it is about feeling good but is also about having somone completely surrender to you!

As for in the hobby it is very cut and dry, if they advertise it then they really like it! If they do not advertise it they don't like or it is something that they will only do with an so or they are not wiling to surrender themselves like that to a client. If u are new to it but in both the real world and the hobby world find a girl who advertises she does it and she can be an additional research tool for you.

As for what sdeveroe said and what ginger is going to steal from him sometimes you have to do what you got to do if you want to reach the final destination, although they seldomly will go to that end to test how much you really want to do it. But understand as well what is good for the goose is good for the gander, and sometimes the gander is freaky like that?

I’ve tried it a few times but I have just never found the appeal that so many guys associate with anal sex. I guess I’ve always kinda figured that if I have a naked pretty woman on all fours in front of me, I see two distinct possibilities of pleasure staring back at me, and I’ll go for that warm pink flesh every time.
When I look at a ladies anus I always think that it ain’t but a Taint away from heaven.
jmho

I’ve tried it a few times but I have just never found the appeal that so many guys associate with anal sex. I guess I’ve always kinda figured that if I have a naked pretty woman on all fours in front of me, I see two distinct possibilities of pleasure staring back at me, and I’ll go for that warm pink flesh every time.
When I look at a ladies anus I always think that it ain’t but a Taint away from heaven.
jmho Originally Posted by megustalatina

To each his own- absolutely. I remember having a fling years back with a lady who absolutely loved anal sex. We would go at it for awhile, I remember that with her, it just wasn't all that great of a feeling. What I did enjoy, was the visual, the thought of doing something Taboo and that this lady was allowing me to enter her from the backside which made her somewhat taboo. I will add this though- It always felt much better once i finished off Vaginally. I've always been more into the women that would allow themselves to attempt or do this kind of things because they loved everything about sex. It's like watching Porn and then doing those things with a women that was in the porn- it's a visual thing- knowing that she is participating in a fantasy or jack off secession from an early porn clip is what is a turn on. I think anal sex has less to do with the actual feeling for the guy and more visual and dirty it is the higher the intensity for some. That's just my opinion.

I wish I could find the site again. There is a woman who has a site dedicated to the topic. She was both respectful and lascivious and her site was full of information. In short, her message was that there are many more nerve endings in the anus than in our genitalia- and that care, hygiene and careful prep and buildup were needed- especially for beginners. Sad to say a lot of women were introduced to it by getting a dick rammed up their ass.

I think also that because it is "forbidden fruit" and a little edgy for most of us, it is actually more intense. My experience from civie GF's and occasional providers who really like is that their early experience was gentle and patient (usually over weeks or months) and indulged their natural curiosity. And that it was the most intense sex I ever shared with a woman.

I know a lot of people have a charge about it being gay or reminding them of prison- but it is like so many other things. Ain't what you do- it is the way that you do it. If it is a hobby situation, I usually prefer it with women who enjoy it rather than accommodate- otherwise it is not the same experience and more like something I am doing to them than with them.

And of course, there is this hilarious commentary on the topic from Lucky Louie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOHs_5HQLaA

I have been fortunate to have 2 SO's that loved it and asked for it. In these cases, it was outstanding.

In the words of my dear provider " anal? Sure, bend over and I will do you first" ..... changed my mind.

Scott Originally Posted by sdeveroe

Good point! Deal breaker for me as well. Seems like that's been my life story- I'm a giver not a taker!

I will confess at odd times wondering what all the fuss was about, but I remain contented with the natural passage that is self lubricating and self cleaning. It suits me. It fits me, and I am very comfortable there.
For those who's taste is so inclined, I do not judge or blame. In fact you may have all the anal intercourse to which I might otherwise be entitled.

In the words of my dear provider " anal? Sure, bend over and I will do you first" ..... changed my mind. Originally Posted by sdeveroe

Funny. I have done just that. There was a Provider in AR named Jewels who has retired... totally free and wild and awesome in bed. Anal with her was great, but she also liked playing with me, to which I obliged.... Not really much fun for me, but the sex with Jewels was OUTSTANDING!...I still think about her.

But I agree if a girl is going to let you up her ass, and she wants to play with you, then it is only right to oblige.

It is a different sensation - duh.

But, (butt) - thge areas discussed, knowledge care cleanliness etc make it somewhat different in the hobby world. The option is there, but don't expect it.

I quit advertising anal for a few reasons:
Knowledge -
as Shorty mentioned rock hard, no if's ands or butts.
Torque (speed & pressure). No matter how hot things are anal is not an immediate "climb on & bang away

As for civvies newbies etc: 2 words - push out not in not relax.

It can be better than great if the planets align. Horrid if not.