how many reviews or OKs are good?

Girls - do you prefer a guy with 2 or 3 OKs on a site like P411 or would you prefer 20?

Guys - do you prefer a girl with 3-4 reviews (when she's "new") or a girl with 100+ reviews (but they are all stellar).

For me, it's not all about how many "okays" he has, as it is who gave him the "okays"!

IMO, it does not matter as far as the number of reviews she has, as long as the reviews that are there are not "all over the place" and are fairly consistent, and recent.

IMO, it does not matter as far as the number of reviews she has, as long as the reviews that are there are not "all over the place" and are fairly consistent, and recent. Originally Posted by bigdog0311

+1

For me, it's not all about how many "okays" he has, as it is who gave him the "okays"! Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Dang, what else do yall want?? lol

sixx

Dang, what else do yall want?? lol

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

We want the world! lol

From my stand point I am comfortable with atlest 2 or 3 okays, but the more the better, it give me a better chance of actually knowing some of your references


From the review stand point, numbers are not everything its about the consistancy of them and also keep in mind the folks that write reviews are shooting for another prize(premium access)

Everyone has a different point of view. Before I let P411 lapse I had 13 "OK's" but some ladies still objected that any over a year old "didn't count". Same for reviews, I had the same number on the old board.

As for reviews of ladies, it does depend a lot on who writes them. There are also other factors to consider.

A case in point from just about an hour ago. I'm pretty frustrated right now because for the first time, I flaked on an appointment. The lady is younger than I normally see, but with great reviews and a great half hour rate.

But, when she asked zero screening questions I got nervous, but went ahead and booked. When I got there, there was a guy in a panel van with the motor running exactly where she told me to park.

Instead of a room number, she wanted me to get out of the car so she could see and come get me, then asked what I was driving, and I swear when she called I heard her saying something to someone as I answered.

So, now, a week of thinking about it, day of anticipating it, excuse to get away from the office for a couple of hours and a blue pill later, I'm just shaking my head. I'm 90% sure things would have been fine, 90% sure I would have loved meeting her, but that 10% just isn't worth the worry no matter how great the reviews or how many there are.

From my stand point I am comfortable with atlest 2 or 3 okays, but the more the better, it give me a better chance of actually knowing some of your references


..........also keep in mind the folks that write reviews are shooting for another prize(premium access) Originally Posted by chelsea simms

I do not have a p411 account, but I do have multiple recent references that will give me an "ok". You are right about some review writers, and it is very easy if all you are wanting is PA to write a review, just to give them something else to do, what I think providers should do is when they see a new review about them, they should be able to confirm or deny the review in a post under it, not comment on it or tell anyone what they think of the reviewer, just confirm or deny. Then the guys questioning the validity of the review will not have a leg to stand on if it is confirmed that they saw him and they can have a field day on the reviewer that the provider denies seeing and/or the mods can delete the review. A guy that is shooting for that "bigger prize" will think twice before posting a fake review just to gain PA.

Although I have some recent reviews that were awarded the 6 week BCD access, I pay for my premium membership, so it's not why I write reviews. I usually only write one if the session was above average (read great), although I probably should write more. I've never had a "bad" session, but I would write one if I did.

I always look for recent reviews, P411 membership, postings under "Provider Ads - Dallas", and review their Showcase. I also do a search on their phone number, sometimes "Tineye" their pictures, and usually try to PM them to determine if they are available during the period I'm interested in before I try to make an appointment. I also make sure that their incall location is geographically compatible...

Great comments and feedback, and especially agree with knowing the providers. Same from a guys view, if we know or have PMd other clients and know the reviews to be accurate, just a few reviews of a provider are good enough.

I do see newbies but requre a face to face meeting along with other info. If I get a bad feeling or we do not click then we go our seperate ways. I like to talk to new gentlemen on the phone first. P411 is a great screening tool , however I still ask his ok's for feed back. If I am screening off reviews alone then I require at least 3 from ladies well known on the boards and active. This is not a strip club or massage parlor review. I do not base seeing a client off his reference alone, I consider who he is , how he talks on the boards, how he treats the ladies he has seen.

You never can be to safe on either side of the hobby. Always follow your gut feelings when it is not right , walk away. As far as my thoughts on provider reviews; a lady should be reliable in her bcd time. It is true we all have off days & our mileage will vary.This should not effect the time on a date. Professionals can set aside our indifference or personal life for an hour & get lost in the session. I suggest to all newbies or gentlemen to find what your looking for and research it. You would not buy a new car with out doing some research first. I am not sure why you would spend your hard earned money, time and emotions on anything you did not research.

From my stand point I am comfortable with atlest 2 or 3 okays, but the more the better, it give me a better chance of actually knowing some of your references


From the review stand point, numbers are not everything its about the consistancy of them and also keep in mind the folks that write reviews are shooting for another prize(premium access) Originally Posted by chelsea simms

+1 consistency is key
I agree the more ok's he has it up's the odds I will know at least one of the ok'ers which helps with the comfort level

But, when she asked zero screening questions I got nervous, but went ahead and booked. When I got there, there was a guy in a panel van with the motor running exactly where she told me to park.

Instead of a room number, she wanted me to get out of the car so she could see and come get me, then asked what I was driving, and I swear when she called I heard her saying something to someone as I answered. Originally Posted by Iaintliein

I've had this happen a few times. It freaks me out as well. I do NOT want you to know where I'm parked or what car I'm driving. I have no clue why an escort would legitimately need to know this. I don't blame you at all for bailing on this one.

For me, it's not all about how many "okays" he has, as it is who gave him the "okays"! Originally Posted by Lana Warren

So you need to know the provider who gave the ok?
We have over 500 ladies in the Dallas area. Or do you just
Call them up?