NO donation or memory???

So I was wondering what should us girls do when not getting our donation as agree'd... I recently just had a pretty weird experience where i met a client for the first time and things didnt go as normally... I remember takin pictures then passing out when i awake about 4 hours later from the arrival of the hobbiest there was a 'jimmy' rapper in the trash and no donation left, though i'm usually pretty well tipsy most of the time this was a very early am session and had not drank but a couple beers, so by no way shape or form was i inebriated and am absolutely dumb founded and what to do since i do not have any recollection of any of the time spent... whats even weirder is i have no recollection of the new review or any of the activities provided, any of my past experiences will tell u this sounds nothing like me so where should i go with this from here?

My suggestion is no drinking. Especially with a new client!

And I think it is safe to say you just gave a freebie.

Well I hate it happen but thats on you..why would you drink then pass out..But you cant be mad at the client you let you guard down...Hate it happen but just take it as a lesson learn and stop drinking!!!!

Hate to be "That Bitch" but, how damn stupid can you be for drinking with a client, let alone a new client?


#1 NEVER use alcohol or drugs when you are working, you are risking your LIFE by being off your game

#2 NEVER drink anything a client gives you, I bring my own bottled water to in/out calls. Going out 101 keep an eye on your drink

#3 Go GET TESTED NOW, your lucky there was a rubber in the trash but, that doesn't mean he used 1 the 2nd, 3rd, 5th or 10th time

I have no sympathy for stupidity

you should 'go' to the doctor...get checked...get a morning after pill.
im guessing that you only found a wrapper so he didnt leave dna after the rape that just took place....or was an actually 'rapper' named jimmy in the trash? wither way...you got fucked.

I would suggest not drinking so you can remain in control.
Use this as a valuable lesson learned & good luck to you

So I was wondering what should us girls do when not getting our donation as agree'd... I recently just had a pretty weird experience where i met a client for the first time and things didnt go as normally... I remember takin pictures then passing out when i awake about 4 hours later from the arrival of the hobbiest there was a 'jimmy' rapper in the trash and no donation left, though i'm usually pretty well tipsy most of the time this was a very early am session and had not drank but a couple beers, so by no way shape or form was i inebriated and am absolutely dumb founded and what to do since i do not have any recollection of any of the time spent... whats even weirder is i have no recollection of the new review or any of the activities provided, any of my past experiences will tell u this sounds nothing like me so where should i go with this from here? Originally Posted by TiffanyTexas

You either need to quit drinking so much or find a safer career. If you are tipsy most of the time and had already had 2 beers early in the morning you have a problem. As for the money you did not deserve any you were in no condition to provide a quality service.

On his part, if he did not leave once you passed out what he did was wrong and you need to have yourself checked just in case.

If you really only had a couple of beers, there's a good possibility that you were drugged. Sounds like Rohypnol, the "date rape" drug, which would leave you with no memory. All the advice in the previous posts is applicable, albeit harshly stated, but you might still post an alert or some kind of FYI in the provider-only forums. A fellow doesn't have the right to take advantage of you under any circumstances, even if you are making it easy for him to do so. I'm afraid there's no expectation of collecting money. In this incidence, take the lump and learn from it. Stay vigilant and clear-headed with all clients in the future.

If you really only had a couple of beers, there's a good possibility that you were drugged. Sounds like Rohypnol, the "date rape" drug, which would leave you with no memory. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

This is exactly what I was thinking when I read your post.

This is why WE escorts get a bad name because of clueless women like you. Please if you do not know what the fuck you're doing, contact a reputable lady and ask her for advice. You just gave a fucking freebie that is what happened. Why would you drink on a date .. let alone with a client you do not KNOW and pass out??? really???

I would bet it was ghb.

I have to agree with Fancyinheels and Wicket. It definitely sound like he slipped some Rohypnol in whatever you were drinking. Speaking of, girlie, if you are tipsy pretty much all the time, there is a much, much bigger problem at hand. And to not be on top of your game during an appointment, this is EXACTLY what can happen. Regardless of the fact that it was set up as P4P, the simple fact that you were passed out, you were not able to give consent and were raped. God knows what pictures he took during the act. At least he left the condom aka DNA. You need to put a warning out on this guy, if you actually did screen, get checked for STDs, get out of the business and get professional help. You are very, very lucky as it could have been a lot worse. This should be a big wake up call for you.

Best wishes in whatever it is that you decide to do!

This is why WE escorts get a bad name because of clueless women like you. Please if you do not know what the fuck you're doing, contact a reputable lady and ask her for advice. You just gave a fucking freebie that is what happened. Why would you drink on a date .. let alone with a client you do not KNOW and pass out??? really??? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

In all fairness to her many providers share a drink with their customers. Some people are real slick and could pass off a drink with drugs in it real easy. No need to pile on a girl when she's down. There's many reason why providers get bad names. This is only one example.

Hate to be "That Bitch" but, how damn stupid can you be for drinking with a client, let alone a new client?


#1 NEVER use alcohol or drugs when you are working, you are risking your LIFE by being off your game

#2 NEVER drink anything a client gives you, I bring my own bottled water to in/out calls. Going out 101 keep an eye on your drink

#3 Go GET TESTED NOW, your lucky there was a rubber in the trash but, that doesn't mean he used 1 the 2nd, 3rd, 5th or 10th time

I have no sympathy for stupidity Originally Posted by Aria_Adams

+100. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

Tiffany, that was totally amateurish behavior. You're really lucky if the worst that happened was losing your fee; many girls in similar situations have not been around to tell the tale afterward.

This is why WE escorts get a bad name because of clueless women like you. Please if you do not know what the fuck you're doing, contact a reputable lady and ask her for advice. You just gave a fucking freebie that is what happened. Why would you drink on a date .. let alone with a client you do not KNOW and pass out??? really??? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Giving a way a freebie is the most irrelevant and absurd point here. This is called sexual battery no matter what the context was. Tiffany is lucky to walk away with her life. Hopefully you will look at your drinking and if you remain in this vocation you learn to screen the client and remain sober while you are working. You should look up The Green River Killer, and Ted Bundy, these are two notorious killers of providers but there are a lot more oportunists like the one you came across. Rape, you were raped, is the first step toward sexual killing. You are so lucky.