About 95% of my hobbying activities are outcalls, and I've come to find the following scenario very typical - and of course, dissapointing:
Conway: (insert casual, yet playful introduction and express a desire to meet)
Shaniqua: Sure baby, references or p411 ID?
Conway: (gives p411 ID)
Shaniqua: Everything looks great, when did you want to meet?
Conway: Thursday, 9pm
Shaniqua: How long did you want to hang out?
Conway: One hour
Shaniqua: $350/hr
Problem is, they almost always quote a rate higher than what's posted in their showcase or p411 profile. In this example, the girl I was talking to had a rate of $250/hr. And while I feel the "outcall surcharge" is a ridiculous concept (merits it's own, seperate standalone debate), their profile would say +$50 for outcall. So why is she quoting me $350?
At this point I'm annoyed, and have to bring it up, then she feels like she's making a concession, and bottom line - the anticipated meet-up isnt all that great. So from now on when a lady quotes me something different, I straight up say "nevermind..."
What is the deal, girls!? Please don't look at an outcall as an opportunity to rape money out of our wallets... "time and gas" is not a valid arguement for an extra $100, period.
And please, be consistent with what you have posted in your showcase/profiles!
Love,
Conway