Excitement

When you see someone for the first time, what is the ingredient that REALLY piques your excitement? Men, is it looks, reputation, menu, her reminding you of someone special? Ladies, is it his legend, consideration when contacting you, his number of okays, the thought that his review might get you a lot more business?

What excites me most of all is the hope that this particular lady might make me feel true passion, that for an hour I will be smiling the entire time, enjoying her personality AND her skills while feeling deep inside that we have a bond. I do my research, I know how she looks, what she offers to the masses. I contact her. What is her level of excitement in seeing me? Is it genuine?

Of course, in reality, that is about half of my encounters, because my hobby within the hobby is newbies...going in blind and expecting the absolute best....but that is another thread.

I am not the kind of guy that has a lot of regulars. But I will go back to see a special lady. Hey, I contacted someone I thought would be excited to see me again. Her response was, "well, you know what I offer. If you want to see me again, fine." I will not see her again (I know you are reading this, my friend from long ago).

Anyway, all that was building up to this: When I got into the Houston hobby scene three years ago, I joined P411 and ECCIE because there were four women that I was dying to meet. I met three of them my first month on the site. Diamond Jenet's booking agent at the time required at least one okay. Dammit! I wanted to see her first. Larissa was nice to me. Took a chance on a newbie, and I had an incredible good time. With her okay, I could see DJ. I was f'in overjoyed. She did things I still marvel over. When I got up my nerve, I contacted Dylan. Oh shit! I had wet dreams about that woman. And she made them all come true.

But the 4th woman...oh man...she has proven so elusive. I shit you not, I have been trying to meet her for 3 long years. We have made maybe 8 or 10 appointments to meet. Sometimes she cannot make it, sometimes the problem is mine. We go through periods in which we text a lot, even speak on the phone for hours. We actually know each other quite well. But we disappear from each others lives for months at a time. And we always come back to each other. Sometimes I make contact, sometimes she. We exchange pics and warm wishes often.

Finally, after 3 years, we are definitely going to meet. And you know I will write a review.

I ask you ladies, dudes, how do you think this dream will turn out? Or do you recommend I cancel the appointment to keep the fantasy alive forever.............

Excitement, baby. I am too excited to think straight right now, so help me out.

With me it is hard to describe, but it is a certain chemistry. Some women are just a good time and then your done, no big deal. But others, for some reason you really hit it off with them and the experience is memorable and exciting.

And it is not something you can predict ahead of time. This is pat of what makes this such an exciting hobby. The unpredictability.

If its just a me contact on the fly with no interaction beforehand then it is usually ok.

Now if they catch my attention and hold it by interacting with me till we meet then its usually even better than it would normally be.

I thinck you should quit the hobby.......ijs

You and I have a lot in common when it comes to the hobby. I prefer variety, but if a particular lady goes out of her way to keep up my anticipation, I'll return. It doesn't happen often, and disappointment on my part is the norm. It's almost as if some providers think that once we've met for the first time, the job is done. Then she just needs to be a warm, moist hole that's available. That doesn't work for me.

Communication builds the most excitement for me. The best sessions I've had are with providers who took a bit of time and chatted with me after screening. We got to know each other a little, instead of only TCB. The one repeat that sticks out in my mind is with a provider from Dallas who emails me every now and then, asking about my cock and which new holes its been in -- even offering suggestions given what she knows about me and my taste. Then when we meet, we tear into each other like fuck-buddies.

Pics can be faked (and usually are). Services are pretty standard, with a few delightful exceptions. But a good "bedside manner" is irreplaceable.

As for your scheduled meeting, I hope it lives up to your expectations and look forward to the review.

I thinck you should quit the hobby.......ijs Originally Posted by dearhunter

the countdown started long ago. no over or under needed. but I would be remiss if I did not tell you that on this subject i agree with my friend BustyAmy: you are more worthless than humorous these days. Perhaps you should consider doing the hobby a favor.

You, ender, on the other hand, are what this hobby needs, a cool, unflappable dude who interjects sarcasm when needed, humor when unexpected, and class all the time. I appreciate guys like you.

the countdown started long ago. no over or under needed. but I would be remiss if I did not tell you that on this subject i agree with my friend BustyAmy: you are more worthless than humorous these days. Perhaps you should consider doing the hobby a favor.

You, ender, on the other hand, are what this hobby needs, a cool, unflappable dude who interjects sarcasm when needed, humor when unexpected, and class all the time. I appreciate guys like you. Originally Posted by tbonetas

Damn after reading this my panties got wet. I wish it were me that you are mentioning babe. Although, I know we could have some good times together Don't forget to put me on your to do list if you ever want to quit the hobby. You know I already think highly of you babe muahhh

Don't forget to put me on your to do list if you ever want to quit the hobby. You know I already think highly of you babe muahhh Originally Posted by bustyamy

This is going to sound corny, and old fashioned, but I don't give a fuck. When I was married, or engaged, I never even thought about seeing anyone else. Did not need to, I like regularity, being familiar with one another. Surprises are nice, but I am a creature of habit, and like it that way. I see different ladies, but not near the way I use to, I see one very regularly, and we both like it that way. Sort of like being committed, but not at the same time. Sound fucked up? Yea it probably is, but I am fucked up anyway, so it makes no difference........lol

Originally Posted by scorpioseventy7

Scorp, that is hilarious!

I have not met her face to face, but I would never deny my fondness for Amy. And maybe I will see her. My point with DH was we have a few a'holes that are funny about half the time, insulting the other half. Dinosaurs that "made their bones on ASPD" which, if some have not realized, is dead. They think that gives then a certain expertise. Fuck it. Times change, faces change, attitudes change. They can keep up their blather but, really, except for the 15% of the time they hatch a pearl, nobody cares about their bones, except to look forward to burying them.

I am not talking about the cool dudes who share valuable advice and humorous tales and adventures. I am talking only about the a'holes that talk shit on a daily basis. Times are changing, my men. The new dudes don't appreciate your "insight" as much as you think.

This is going to sound corny, and old fashioned, but I don't give a fuck. When I was married, or engaged, I never even thought about seeing anyone else. Did not need to, I like regularity, being familiar with one another. Surprises are nice, but I am a creature of habit, and like it that way. I see different ladies, but not near the way I use to, I see one very regularly, and we both like it that way. Sort of like being committed, but not at the same time. Sound fucked up? Yea it probably is, but I am fucked up anyway, so it makes no difference........lol Originally Posted by seedman55

So how do you select that woman you will see for the first time?

Yep.......you need to retire.......But, I do agree that you should fuck BustedAmy first.......you could make her your "Goodbye Review #389"........you could make her a "legend"........heh

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Well to me its not all about how a client looks, to me its a turn on how they laugh and joke, then how they kiss and carress. I love when a client get so turned on by me touching myself. There are connections on many levels, and sometimes you find someone who excites the provider just walking in the door! I myself would never see a board asshole, not even for triple. I love a gentleman, one who knows what a woman really wants without having to brag or just be ignorant. I also love great smelling calogne, that gets the juices flowing fast when we are skin on skin!