good point, we're here to sleep with what we can't get without having to pay for it.
Originally Posted by rharley
I'm sure this is true in many cases, but not always. Sometimes it's just a matter of time and expense. Dating can get expensive, and can take a lot of time. Plus all the drama involved. If you're just looking to get laid going out to a bar and finding a girl is a hassle and risky. Despite what some outside the hobby think seeing a provider is safer than some random bar chick.
Besides, as men we really are just focused on looks. Women are more complicated. They look at many other attributes. In general if you have any one of wealth, power, fame or yes, physical attractiveness you can get women. Of course many in the hobby do not fall into these categories, but there are varying degrees. Also don't discount intelligence and charm. How many guys do you know that, in your opinion, did better than they deserve? I can think of quite a few.