I believe we have come along way in life as far as growth in relationships and what we need in them. Ladies please don't chop my head off for saying this
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, but I just think it's really hard to expect a lady to deny the financial security aspect of being in a relationship with a wealthy man. I have been financially comfortable for a long time, and although I'm not private jet rich, no where near it, from my past experiences I have personally never seen a woman turned away a guy that is well off.
No matter if 1, 2, or 4 was in play or not most have still intentionally or unintentionally in the long run went with 3. I'm sure there is some ladies that is very different and may not care all that much about financial security in a relationship and may require the other things, and that is a good thing nothing wrong with any of that, but I just never seen it go that way in my past experiences.
In my personal opinion all these scenarios is still possible for any woman to be in and be happy with the guy, no matter what he is lacking. I see it every day with my RW friends, which 80 percent of them is females. I have some that is with 1 and will only date 1, and some with 2, and that's all they know, and plenty with 3, and only a very few of my friends are with 4. I even raise the question to 3 of my closet female friends that live in Atlanta about me and I braced myself for the answer lol. I asked if they where to date me in a real relationship what would be their reason, and omg they didn't hold back haha.
Kim told me that her reasons hands down would be because I could take care of her financially and she can quit her job lmao. Wow, but ok I asked lol. Nicole said well (my real name) you have always been attractive to me, and it's obviously you are very smart to be where you are in life . I will say because you are nice looking and generous.
And the last one omg Tonya, is very bold and straight forward, she reminds me of BBW Katrina. She said well, you are not my type, but if I had to say, it will be because you have money, plus Nicole told us you can eat pussy like nobody's business. I said check please time to go lmao.
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