Why do we do this???

Ok, Ok...I'm not looking for absolution or anything like that here, but I am curious as to why we are in the hobby as it were. For me, it is several fold. I think as with most hobbyists, we love our spouse and our families...I think that is a given. But, what is missing??...for me partially it is physical. My wife, is a larger woman and from a purely selfish point, she isn't as sexually attractive as a younger and thinner woman...(I am sure she could possibly say the same about me)....although I am HWP.

I think the other reason I do this, is that I like the variety. I like to have sex or sexual favors i.e., BBBJCIM as a for instance without all the hassles of having to beg for it, much less just get it because. I think there is a much better experience sexually and to broaden ones horizons, here as a hobbyist. And frankly while we do pay for our providers time (paying for sex is illegal ) it is nice to have "friends" with benefits, to be able to do what consenting adults do, then to be able to part ways and we are both satisified.

Any thoughts?

Great question - thought about it for a while...no answers...guess I should quit and save my hobby dollars! LOL

Great question - thought about it for a while...no answers...guess I should quit and save my hobby dollars! LOL Originally Posted by Bigh1955

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Just think of all the fun you'll miss . . . Nebraska is full of great ladies, and there are some awesome ladies that stop by for a visit from time to time!

There's a running joke when this question is asked that if a lady answers anything other than "I do it for the money", that she is being disingenuous.

So . . . why do I do this? MANY reasons, amongst which is, of course, the money. However, I can say with great confidence that anyone that has spent time with me behind closed doors will tell you that I do it because I just simply love what I do, how I do it, and whom I do it to . . . and I do! And, I'm sure a lot of other ladies do too!

Kisses,

- Jackie

I'm in it like you spacejanitor. Variety younger and thinner woman.

Where else can you get a adrenaline rush, excitement, fear, complete release all within an hour and love what you are doing!

X-box?

But I do tend to use my fingers more in the hobby.

X-box?

But I do tend to use my fingers more in the hobby. Originally Posted by mutualpleasur2

We could use whip cream and put a x on my box!

Just think of all the fun you'll miss . . . Nebraska is full of great ladies, and there are some awesome ladies that stop by for a visit from time to time!

There's a running joke when this question is asked that if a lady answers anything other than "I do it for the money", that she is being disingenuous.

So . . . why do I do this? MANY reasons, amongst which is, of course, the money. However, I can say with great confidence that anyone that has spent time with me behind closed doors will tell you that I do it because I just simply love what I do, how I do it, and whom I do it to . . . and I do! And, I'm sure a lot of other ladies do too!

Kisses,

- Jackie Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

Ahhh....the Voodoo...that you do...so well!
You can take me BCD IRL anytime! LOL

I always say my friends are too good for the bar sluts. They want a top notch real thing!!

I may be dating myself here, but I remember when I was a kid and my Dad took me to Baskin Robbins. Who didn't want to try ALL 31 FLAVORS? Now I can.

Bar Sluts...Did someone mention bar sluts???! ! !
Ahh memories...my main source of entertainment in my 20's and 30's.

I had an expression I lived by when I was really horny...which was most of the time
"Go ugly early...and avoid the rush [at closing time].
It ALWAYS worked!

Single with to much rejection in my past. Much easier this way.

I am in the hobby because I figure if I am paying the wonderful lady she can't laugh at my little pecker and bacne.

Single with to much rejection in my past. Much easier this way. Originally Posted by jjchmiel78

This and im desperate because i havent had sex since my jr yr in highschool... i graduated june 2012 moved to another city for college dont have friends to go out and party with here so im here....and btw.... yes im legal -_-