Ladies, Who Provides The Condom?

Danielle Reid's Avatar
I usually keep one or two on me at a time, but usually the men I see have their own (unless they're a newbie). Just trying to pick your brains and see who's responsible for the coverup
i believe since THEY are paying for a service...WE should supply. You dont go to mcdonalds and have to bring your own ketchup.. or to a salon and have to bring ur own scissors....
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I have to bring my own hair and Virgin Brazilian Hair ain't cheap!! :P

But I honestly see your point. Thanks for responding!
The provider should ALWAYS be prepared. That said many guys have a preference and will bring their own.
The provider should ALWAYS be prepared. That said many guys have a preference and will bring their own. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

exactly.
What happens when you show up and don't have an appropriate size for the gentleman? Heck, I'm not even an escort and I keep three sizes of condoms in a little pouch in my purse, just in case.

Many guys are married and I'd think it was a pain for them to have to stop at the gas station and buy a three pack of condoms on the way to an appt.

Additionally, I'd want to know the condoms were the appropriate type and in good condition.

On a related note...if a client pays you then asks if you have condoms. Your answer should be "for what?" This is a common way LE will prove that you have offered sex for money. Same thing with, "is it extra for Greek?" Which may at additional penalties for sodomy/crime against nature.

Just a little public service announcement for the day.
If a gent hands you a condom please do the research and check the expiration date and packaging.

I'm sure you already do that to your own, so you should do that to theirs.
Cpalmson's Avatar
I expect the lady to have the covers, but as a former Boy Scout, I cum prepared
SpiceItUp's Avatar
I've never provided my own condoms, I guess it may vary by area and demographic but to me if I'm paying $200-300 I expect things like condom and lube to be provided.

That said, I do come prepared just in case, nothing kills a mood like "oh shit sorry Hun I'm out of condoms"
I've never provided my own condoms, I guess it may vary by area and demographic but to me if I'm paying $200-300 I expect things like condom and lube to be provided.

That said, I do come prepared just in case, nothing kills a mood like "oh shit sorry Hun I'm out of condoms" Originally Posted by SpiceItUp
I have only had one provider ask me to stop and pick some up on my way, and many times(if I don't forget) I will come prepared with one or two in my pocket, just in case.
RedLeg505's Avatar
Many guys are married and I'd think it was a pain for them to have to stop at the gas station and buy a three pack of condoms on the way to an appt. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
Not sure how the others go, but I always have my own pre-purchased and stored away in my "hobby bag". No "stopping to buy some" on the way to the appointment. Of course, I'm also careful about proper storage where they won't be found.. or haven't yet. If the lady offers and the types available are similar to what I have, great. If not or she is out, I have some so there is never any "whoops.. we don't have any? Now what?" awkwardness.
burkalini's Avatar
I never go without my own
I would expect the lady to provide one if I don't have one. I very much prefer Trojan Exctasy, but I always forget to bring them.

Also, a quality vs cheap condom can make a big difference, even if the hobbyist doesn't realize it. If you want repeat business, it may be worth the investment for the higher quality ones. Don't take that the wrong way, it's not that I check the model as soon as she brings out the package and base my judgement on that - but once it goes on, some feel better than others and that is going to reflect on the feeling with the provider and the overall pleasure of the experience.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I was thinking of investing in a variety of sizes, flavors, and textures. Because it seems the ones I have never fit the guys I see lol
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I've never provided my own condoms, I guess it may vary by area and demographic but to me if I'm paying $200-300 I expect things like condom and lube to be provided.

That said, I do come prepared just in case, nothing kills a mood like "oh shit sorry Hun I'm out of condoms" Originally Posted by SpiceItUp
I ran out of condoms once. He wanted MSOG and I told him I only had one left. I guess he thought I was joking. I ended it with a few BBBJs