You're a total cutie, but you aren't gonna be busy if you only give short notice for your visits.
If you notice, all the successful ladies advertise their trip a week out or farther so guys can make the necessary arrangements to get time off, book etc.
Look back a few pages on this subforum and you'll see other ladies were in the same situation as you and were pretty much told the same.
TCB skills are just as, if not more important, than BCD skills.
Hopefully now that the weekend has come business will pick up for you, happy hobbying.