3-some (FMF) and condom use
There was a tidbit on another thread about the use of condoms when 2 providers are involved. Obviously in porn, the guy will go back and forth from one girl to the other, but how is this handled in the hobby world?
I had assumed that all providers would require a new condom before going from one of the ladies to the other, but with some reading, it seems like this is not always the case and some are willing to share a condom.
Guys, in your experience is it the norm to share or not to share condoms?
Ladies, is this a health concern and under what circumstances are you OK with sharing?
In my one real double experience, the floor was littered with empty condom packages and used condoms.
Without a change of condoms, there is a guarantee of body fluid exchange between the two ladies. With a condom exchange, there still might be some exchange.
Think about this, first gal gives a great BBBJ, CIM or COF. Then she dives into daty on second gal without washing face or gargling. Fluid exchange has occurred.
Another scenario: First gal gives a great stripper slide, second gal hops on to sho she can do it better. Bingo, fluid exchange.
I could go on, but in any event, multiple partners, any flavor, the potential for exchange of body fluids goes up.
This is part of the risk factor we all must face. You decide the level of risk you are willing to expose yourself to.
Although I've never had a threesome with providers, you may find both scenarios where each girl wants you to wear a new condom and others that are willing to share one. I think it would be safe to assume that just because two girls are offering a doubles session doesn't mean they really know eachother that well, so they may require you to wear a different condom. Girls that are doing double sessions that are actually friends and have known eachother for a long time may feel less inhibited.
There was a tidbit on another thread about the use of condoms when 2 providers are involved. Obviously in porn, the guy will go back and forth from one girl to the other, but how is this handled in the hobby world?
I had assumed that all providers would require a new condom before going from one of the ladies to the other, but with some reading, it seems like this is not always the case and some are willing to share a condom.
Guys, in your experience is it the norm to share or not to share condoms?
Ladies, is this a health concern and under what circumstances are you OK with sharing?
Originally Posted by ScubaBad
NEVER EVER SHARE!!!
no way am i sharing condoms!
When doing doubles,I will switch out fresh for each person between girls{or guys}....safety is first!
Thanks all. I think it should be safety first also and I'm shocked that so many providers share, especially in this day and age and all the science to back it up.
Change condoms. I would think that goes without saying.
Change condoms. I would think that goes without saying.
Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
+1
I've been in one doubles session that got pretty wild. Both gals did BBBJCIM, but we never rotated with me having sex with one girl and then having sex with the other girl before cumming. So, we had to change condoms between girls. I imagine given the "situation" had I rotated between girls before cumming, we'd have shared the condom. It was pretty wild and I'm sure none of us would have had the sense to change condoms.
A prerequisite to a great FMF session is that the ladies are really into each other. That means lots of bi-sexual DFK, reciprocal DATY and genital to genital contact (scissoring?). Each of these activities involves fluid exchange, right? So if the ladies are exchanging fluids between each other, what difference does it make if the guy uses the same condom? It seems to me the added risk of contamination is minimal once the ladies decide to sample each other without protection.
I have only had one doubles session and I was prepared to change condoms, but the girls were involved with each other and I simply slipped and dipped between the two without any instruction to change hats.
I am contemplating another doubles session with two ladies who have a relationship. From other reviews I know that changing condoms isn't an issue. In fact they line up their derrieres side by side and encourage dipping back and forth. I have seen the photos and it is a very hot image and prospect.
One alternative is for the ladies to use female condoms. That way the hobbyist is not inconvenienced by changing hats.
Please don't think that I am not for safe sex, but once the Rubicon of actual contact is crossed, changing condoms seems to be too little and too late.
- Ninel
- 08-14-2011, 08:23 AM
Change condoms. I would think that goes without saying.
Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
+2
Change condoms. I would think that goes without saying.
Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
DAMN RIGHT!!!! +1, brother Ike
I have had a few double sessions... After it was all said and done... CONDOM Wrappers were everywhere.... Change up EVERYTIME!!
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A prerequisite to a great FMF session is that the ladies are really into each other. That means lots of bi-sexual DFK, reciprocal DATY and genital to genital contact (scissoring?). Each of these activities involves fluid exchange, right? So if the ladies are exchanging fluids between each other, what difference does it make if the guy uses the same condom? It seems to me the added risk of contamination is minimal once the ladies decide to sample each other without protection.
I have only had one doubles session and I was prepared to change condoms, but the girls were involved with each other and I simply slipped and dipped between the two without any instruction to change hats.
I am contemplating another doubles session with two ladies who have a relationship. From other reviews I know that changing condoms isn't an issue. In fact they line up their derrieres side by side and encourage dipping back and forth. I have seen the photos and it is a very hot image and prospect.
One alternative is for the ladies to use female condoms. That way the hobbyist is not inconvenienced by changing hats.
Please don't think that I am not for safe sex, but once the Rubicon of actual contact is crossed, changing condoms seems to be too little and too late.
Originally Posted by awl4knot
Good perspective. It seem like if the girls are already into each other, their jizz is going to end up on all parties so why bother changing hats if one has yet to cum. As you say, the Rubicon has been crossed.
Originally posted by Awl4knot (see above)
+1
Come on, friends. Between the DFK, BBBJ, DATY, DATO, etc. Fluids ARE Exchanged. If you insist on a totally sanitized world, I question whether you should be playing.
Change condoms. I would think that goes without saying.
Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
this.
safety first, every time!