What to say to family???

On mothers day i told my mother and babysis what i, a 41 year old straight A law student, is doing for a living. i knew they would be accepting.
It has now come to my attention that that whole side of the family knows and they are planning some kind of "intervention" for me in August at the family reunion.
now im writing a letter to them all explaining , what i do, why i do it, and why i only told mom and baby sis.
So, my question to you Providers and Hobbyists who love us.....

What is the definition of 'Inderpendant Provider'?????

For the Hobbyitst.....

What do you benefit from seeing a safe, verified provider?


For the Providers.....

other than financial,, what do you benefit from being a Provider?

I can only answer these question from my point of view,,,im curious though if anyone can help me put it into the right words..

thank You for your feedback,
Javquelyn Francis

On mothers day i told my mother and babysis what i, a 41 year old straight A law student, is doing for a living. i knew they would be accepting.
It has now come to my attention that that whole side of the family knows and they are planning some kind of "intervention" for me in August at the family reunion.
now im writing a letter to them all explaining , what i do, why i do it, and why i only told mom and baby sis.
So, my question to you Providers and Hobbyists who love us.....

What is the definition of 'Inderpendant Provider'?????

For the Hobbyitst.....

What do you benefit from seeing a safe, verified provider?


For the Providers.....

other than financial,, what do you benefit from being a Provider?

I can only answer these question from my point of view,,,im curious though if anyone can help me put it into the right words..

thank You for your feedback,
Javquelyn Francis Originally Posted by Jacquelyn Francis

I'm biting my tongue.

I will say that if any of what you say is true, you need to learn to keep a secret and protect your own privacy better. You also, if you chose to share this information, should have provided it in a clear and concise manner. That would have lessened the need your loved ones felt for an intervention.

That said, I'm having a hard time taking you seriously because I do not believe you are a straight A law student in Santa Fe. Therefore, I have a hard time knowing what else is false.

Regardless good luck. And be careful out there.

I'm PM'ing my reply to you.

I hope there is something there of value...

I'm biting my tongue.

I will say that if any of what you say is true, you need to learn to keep a secret and protect your own privacy better. You also, if you chose to share this information, should have provided it in a clear and concise manner. That would have lessened the need your loved ones felt for an intervention.

That said, I'm having a hard time taking you seriously because I do not believe you are a straight A law student in Santa Fe. Therefore, I have a hard time knowing what else is false.

Regardless good luck. And be careful out there. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

why would anything i say NOT be the truth? what would be the gain in making this up?
i dont understand?

I'm biting my tongue.

I will say that if any of what you say is true, you need to learn to keep a secret and protect your own privacy better. You also, if you chose to share this information, should have provided it in a clear and concise manner. That would have lessened the need your loved ones felt for an intervention.

That said, I'm having a hard time taking you seriously because I do not believe you are a straight A law student in Santa Fe. Therefore, I have a hard time knowing what else is false.

Regardless good luck. And be careful out there. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

And you didnt even take the time to answer the questions.......

Write out an argument for how this is more beneficial for YOU than other options.

Anticipate each and every rebuttal they will give you.

Be prepared to prove you are not using drugs or abusing alcohol.

If possible, get school records that prove your perfect attendance and grades.



An Independent Provider is someone who works for herself, without the control or management of a pimp, agency, or any one else. She enjoys pleasing men and being financially rewarded for it. She enters this profession freely and without coercion.

I still think you have a bit if a problem with honesty as your "resume" makes little sense. I think you are a partial truth teller and because of that, your family sensed that and is therefore concerned about you. You either needed to stay quiet, or give them the 100% truth.

Again. Good luck.

i dont understand what you mean by "resume"..
but i do apprciate the feedback and your last response i took as support. thanks?

I'm really not here to beat you up...especially if you are having family issues. I'm very supportive of providers here. However, I have known thousands of law students and I simply don't believe you are currently one...perhaps something close, but not a law student. I mean, there isn't even a law school in your city...and the only people more anal about their writing and grammar than lawyers are, well...law student, lol.

Because of that, I'm inclined to deduce you think you're a better storyteller than you actually are. And because of THAT, I suspect your family thinks you are lying about some material facts in this situation. That is worrying them that you're actually falling into some of he stereotypical problems that escorts are known to have.

So, my suggestion is...now that the cat's out of the proverbial bag, you need to fess up or shut up completely.

You "knew they would be accepting" yet they felt the need to tell the rest of the family your secret?

Or continue to play dumb...

How do you not know what "resume" means or the context in which lm69 was using it in? Being a law student and all.

I think buying a book on law doesn't make you a law student.

I think you also need to tell your family the truth and just tell them what you do for a living.

Not sure why you felt it necessary to out yourself on your career choice unless guilt was eating at you for some reason.

If they are so accepting of your choice they wouldn't have told the world what you do and respected your privacy.

I never knew anyone to get an A in college.

Thx GotYour6(9). I agree. And I think you're correct in the guilt issue.

My Secrets & Lies thread addresses that to a point.

I got plenty of A's in college and beyond. However, "straight A student" is not terminology a law student generally uses. It's Law Review, top 10%, Order of the Coif, etc.

Just an FYI.

Thx GotYour6(9). I agree. And I think you're correct in the guilt issue.

My Secrets & Lies thread address that to a point.

I got plenty of A's in college and beyond. However, "straight A student" is not terminology a law student generally uses. It's Law Review, top 10%, Order of the Coif, etc.

Just an FYI. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Or a GPA, even.

I think it's stunning that a law student is asking others for arguments.

Your a provider but need various definitions of "independent" provider? Hmmm...

Your inquiries sound like someone wanting to attempt a research paper.

My suggestion is for you to explain your private parts have nothing to do with them. Whilst they fuck for a ring, a car, or just BC they believe the gobbly goop civie men say to bed them, you on the other hand, fuck to take care of yourself. Simple enough. Dont take this wrong, but 50 is fast approaching, I'm sure at your mature years, you know what you're doing and have lived long enough to make choices in your best interest. My family knows and Dont care. They'd rather me have financial independence, instead of being the town slut with 3 kids 3 baby daddies and no education, finances, or stability to show.