My first time was with a young (legal, lol) black girl in OKC. Very skinny gal and I'm thinking it might have been her first time too. She turned her back to me as she undressed and handed me the cover and told me to put it on. She then attempted to give me a cbj that wasn't very good, no kissing or DATY. Don't know if it was that or the fact that I did not find her attractive or friendly, but nothing worked. So I gave her the donation and sent her on her way. Was not a good first time but I'm no quitter, I've had a lot of fun with some great ladies since then.
Originally Posted by Lliks
Sometimes we need to learn about ourselves.
Once in the late 1970s, and again around 2000, I had similar events.
I learned that I need to find the girl attractive, and I need to like her.
If a woman seems cold and acts very business-like than my member is not going to work. If we can have a meal, do something fun together, it would help me. Maybe if I had a chance to see her laugh and smile, then I can get into it.
When I have had an affair, by the time that we got to bed, we were already established friends and felt a connection going on.
But the two times when I have hired a professional, it did not work out.
One of the things that I enjoy this forum is in the reviews, these girls nearly all treat their customers very well. The encounters read like a guy hooking up with his girlfriend.