I figured I'd share this experience and get your thoughts. Yesterday I met an UTR girl from an SA type site. She said to met her at her house in the South Hills. We agree to meet at 1:00 then about an hour before she pushes it back to 1:30. I get to her 70s split level house on a decent street, ring the doorbell, knock on the door and no answer. After 5 minutes I walk back to my car and text her. Within a minute she calls and asks me to come pick her up at the CoGos about a mile away.
The CoGos was a bit sketchy, but he hopped into my car and we headed back to her place. She was cute, but very different from the pics posted in her profile and ones I found on FB. It was definitely her, but I can only assume the last year has been rough on her. She was jittery and literally bouncing all around my car like she had ants in her pants (for lack of better description). We get to her place and she apologizes that her place is a mess because she was robbed a week prior, they trashed her place and she left things for the insurance adjuster.
We go in and trashed is an understatement- lights smashed, glass and mirrors smashed on the floors, entry way tiles all smashed so much that I had a hard time closing the door. She hyperactively shows me around the house pointing out all the damage, writing on the walls and slashed leather couches. (Nare I forget the clothes and packs of Newports laying everywhere). She clears off a space on the one piece of the leather sectional that wasn't slashed for me and we sit down to talk as she is up and down, up and down, up and down and completely jittery the entire time.
She said she was nervous and asked if I were OK if she smoked. I said it was her house and she could do whatever she wanted, hoping it would help calm her down. She started digging through her purse trying to find her cigarettes - I said, I think I saw a few packs in the kitchen. I go to the kitchen, the first pack on the table was empty - I go to the pack on the counter which was empty as well except for several insulin needle caps. I shook my head, thought WTF am I doing here before going back to the living room.
She found her smokes, lit up and said, so what do you want to do? I said whatever you want to. She gives me this long story about how I was the first guy she met online and didn't know what to expect. After some hyperactive small talk with her changing locations and positions at least a dozen times in two minutes, she comes over and says "I like you, lifts her shirt up and said let's get naked" off to the bedroom we went. The bed had a bunch of stuff on it - I was cleaning some of it off with her and I pick up what I thought was a dark perfume sample sprayer, but as I set it on the end table see its a glass tube, cracked on one end - apparently my first experience with a crack-pipe.
We get naked and she is a complete firecracker constantly changing positions with me having to chase her all around the bed - complete chaos!!! She also kept pulling back the curtains to look outside and a few times went to the living room to look for people. I started to feel like she was robbing me or letting someone in to rob me. I ran naked from the bed to the living room to grab my coat where I had my phone, wallet and cash hidden in my inside zipper pockets. I look and nothing is gone - Thank God!! She comes back into the bedroom and starts fucking me for about 3-4 minutes when she looks out the curtains and says, her dad is there - I need to get dressed now and leave out the back door. She runs out the the living room and I get dressed in the BR - I start to leave and she directs me out the front door saying her dad will be back in 2 minutes and I need to go. She gives me a huge kiss, tells me to call her and shoves me out the door. As I get in my car I realize I never paid her the agreed upon price for the "date". I laughed to myself and got the fuck out of there.
As I was driving home I was piecing the experience together in my head. Why wasn't she home when I got there and why at CoGos? Based on her behavior, I'm guessing she was up there getting her fix of whatever. What's with her constantly looking out the window? I was right there and saw no one at her house and am wondering if she was tripping or hallucinating her dad being there. All in all a very strange encounter. I have seen providers like Jemmelia and Danielle who you know and see evidence of extracurricular activities, but I've never been around anyone who was clearly tripping like this girl - I mean she was going 1,000 miles an hour from the time we met. She says she has ADHD, but this was waaay beyond that.
Before I met her I did my due diligence and found her real name, FB page and a lot of other information. She hadn't been active on social media for about 18 months, but before then she seemed very normal and professional with pictures of her and her daughter in her Lexus, modeling pictures, and hanging with some very well connected people in the City. I was expecting to be meeting a very professional woman, and what I met was a shell of that woman from 2 years ago. The Lexus was repossed, her house completely trashed and she aged about a decade in 2 years. I can only guess her extracurricular activities have completely destroyed her life - what a complete shame. Crazy!!!!