OP - you might want to rethink to which "star" you wish to hitch your wagon. Our resident hospitality queen, Broke Wilde, showed you far less kindness and advice than did Abigail & SC.
Ask her if she's ever worked in the inconvenient, remote Woodlands area she recommended. There's a reason.
Abigail and SC both call it like it is and their advice about "survival" in this city was real and far more honest than you might have initially thought. This Has been asked over and over and over and easilybreaserched.
As for you Abigail, & SC, all I can add is: