Feather Play.... Erotic Thinking

Yes I have no idea for the real term of this but it has been a curiosity of mine to experience. So can anyone explain or maybe anyone has experienced this sort of thing. Its more of an intimacy thing. Blind folded and tied not aware of what comes next. It's been a huge fantasy of mine. This should be interesting.

Does it have to feathers? I have enjoyed this with type of thing with several of my lady friends, but we usually use a variety of things. Could be feathers, soft luxurious materials (silk, cashmere, etc.), some times rougher materials, ice cubes, etc. I've found this sometimes related to or leading to candle/wax play. Its about enjoying and experiencing the sensual feel while at the same time giving (total) control being tied up.

The problem I find in the hobby is that this type of play requires a buildup and needs to be done slowly, i.e. takes time, no wham-bam. SHE needs time to enjoy it. Build this into a "session" and I think you need at least 2 hours, and probably more. That's more difficult for me (and other men I'd guess) to find a block of time and doesn't translate well into an hourly rate.

If I could find a lady who enjoys this approach and these types of activities without having to watch the clock ... that would be the holy grail.

I agree i prefer longer sessions anyways. I think ive more than reasonable. Now ive had the ice cubes not a fan. It doesn't have to be just a feather but i watch alot of porn lol. Yes I saw this type of thing and its something i wouldn't mind trying. My sensations are pretty loud here. I would love to explore this.