I'm older, in my 50s, and hadn't done this for a while. Tried to set something up with Camila Chambers as the age seemed right for me. Went through a series of emails to verify and then got a polite "no thanks" with no explanation. I was pretty much willing to give everything but my dental records.
It's very depressing to get shot down on this. In the correspondence I related that I was in need of simple affection more than anything else. Not helping is that I'm not good with cellphones.
I'm just trying to find an intelligent mature woman who's no more of a flake than I am just to spend time with, but I can't just find anyone. My guess is that I'm just too old for this.