All Fair- What Providers don't understand about clients that clients wish they did.

I'm just curious as an earlier post had a harsh tone- to the biz end of things.

This may be a difficult thread to get going so I will help. The central problem is that we are not the enigma to women that women are to us. They have known what we want since they developed secondary sexual characteristics. We are incredibly weak and easily led.There are a few things the novice provider will do well to learn.

1)We are more sensitive than you think, especially when behind closed doors. Treat us kindly and we will be back.
2)Find something to like about us. We feel diminished enough by having to pay for sex, being inexperienced,being too small down there, any number of things that we agonize over every day.
3)We get bored easily, don't show us every trick on the first date or you might not get us back for a third.
4)We love it when you listen. If somebody else did we probably would not have come to you today. There is nothing sexier than a woman who seems to find us interesting.
5)We love to be talked to before, during and after that main event. It doesnt have to be porn talk, which only one woman in a hundred can do well anyway, but compliments on technique, gentle suggestions as to what you like, make us feel like the lover we always wanted to be. If more wives understood the power of the gently spoken word, there would not be nearly as many escorts.
6)We like to be tended to after we have reached the mountaintop and are lying exhausted on the bed with a latex sock of spooge dangling from our Johnson. Get a warm washcloth and tidy us up.A farewell pat to the equipment that has performed so well even if, and especially if it may have been a lackluster performance is always nice.
7)We like to think we did a good job. Tell us you had a nice time. Even if what you mean is that it wasnt horrible, didnt hurt, or just that we treated you with respect. We have spent our lives seeking the validation of women, and we go home happier and wish to return sooner if we get it.

There are seven, I know there are others, but thats a start. Of course none of this applies to the self assured cockmaster who is always cool and on his game, but for the rest of us you just might become our all time favorite.

This may be a difficult thread to get going so I will help. The central problem is that we are not the enigma to women that women are to us. They have known what we want since they developed secondary sexual characteristics. We are incredibly weak and easily led.There are a few things for that the novice provider will do well to learn... Originally Posted by Lookin4

May as well lock this thread and stick it up at the top of the forum... ain't no more that needs be said, methinks.

Great post, Lookin.

Cheers,

bcg

May as well lock this thread and stick it up at the top of the forum... ain't no more that needs be said, methinks.

Great post, Lookin.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Praise from Caesar.

1)We are more sensitive than you think, especially when behind closed doors. Treat us kindly and we will be back.
2)Find something to like about us. We feel diminished enough by having to pay for sex, being inexperienced,being too small down there, any number of things that we agonize over every day.
3)We get bored easily, don't show us every trick on the first date or you might not get us back for a third.
4)We love it when you listen. If somebody else did we probably would not have come to you today. There is nothing sexier than a woman who seems to find us interesting.
5)We love to be talked to before, during and after that main event. It doesnt have to be porn talk, which only one woman in a hundred can do well anyway, but compliments on technique, gentle suggestions as to what you like, make us feel like the lover we always wanted to be. If more wives understood the power of the gently spoken word, there would not be nearly as many escorts.
6)We like to be tended to after we have reached the mountaintop and are lying exhausted on the bed with a latex sock of spooge dangling from our Johnson. Get a warm washcloth and tidy us up.A farewell pat to the equipment that has performed so well even if, and especially if it may have been a lackluster performance is always nice.
7)We like to think we did a good job. Tell us you had a nice time. Even if what you mean is that it wasnt horrible, didnt hurt, or just that we treated you with respect. We have spent our lives seeking the validation of women, and we go home happier and wish to return sooner if we get it.
Originally Posted by Lookin4

Very impressive Lookin. I promise to take all of this to heart. Especially the part about pretending to listen.

mutal respect. Well said Lookin4.

Very impressive Lookin. I promise to take all of this to heart. Especially the part about pretending to listen.


I am flattered that you interrupted ball-frying
long enough to read it.

Why don't women need watches?
There's a clock on the stove.

Very impressive Lookin. I promise to take all of this to heart. Especially the part about pretending to listen. Originally Posted by sadie

[Dr. Simon True has found a process for extracting gold from common seawater, but died before he could pass it on.]
Randolph: Listen to me carefully. Did Simon ever speak to you about the process he was working on?
Amanda True: Why certainly. He kept me up night after night for weeks.
Randolph: I hope you can remember some of it.
Amanda True: No. After five marriages... If a woman hasn't, well, learned to appear to listen to a man without actually having heard one word, then she might just as well turn in her wedding rings.
--The Man From U.N.C.L.E. [TV series, ep. "The Five Daughters Affair, Part I"]

Cheers,

bcg

Good thread.

Very good Lookin4 - Some of us are even more sensative than others, expecially when we really make a connection with a wonderful lady. When the relationship is more than 2 years year old, you know all the personal details of each other and would do anything for her (and have), you can get hurt badly when the lady does not reach out to you in return.

I agree EXCEO.............. This hobby.job.way of life has bettered me and made me into a woman with the help of some lovely friends.
THANKS.

I agree with all of the above and as mentioned elsewhere it is a fantasy or illusion but when you remove that it is still two people connecting for a few minutes. Each is giving part of their life to be with the other.

I agree EXCEO.............. I do not have the advantage of having a father anymore so I have loads of daddies to replace him Originally Posted by MissDreams

Now if that doesn't make a man feel sexually desired... I don't know what would.


You crack me up Dreams.

HA HA whaattttt!

I dont know about the rest of you but a turn-off for me is the obvious fake moans or the obvious fake speaking during the act, it just makes me want to quit and take my toy and go home!!