When someone takes advantage!!!

helenparr's Avatar
So you were trying to be the popular girl and give what all the kiddies were asking for. Then someone overstays their welcome by an hour.
Books an hour and then come 30 past still there... 45 past and still there, then finally an hour past.....

What should you do?
If you don't speak up it's your fault. If you're a business owner and you have no clue how to run your business (by speaking up) and you don't know when closing time is then you should just do volunteer work and hang out after hours for fun.
helenparr's Avatar
What is the "proper way" to speak up so you are not a "clock watcher". And when subtitle hints did not work, and the room phone, the cell phone ringing.
what is the eloquent way to let them know it's time to GTFO?
What is the "proper way" to speak up so you are not a "clock watcher" Originally Posted by helenparr
Well you could always put on a robe and ask him to get the door and let your next appt in for you


Or tell him you're about to get in the shower and if he could get the door for you, cause your next appt is on the way up

Or tell him to get the F out!!! I don't worry myself about any backlash from a client. As long as he's gone and not wasting my time he's welcome to waste his time as he pleases. He can play the bash Seeking ~P game all day and all night if that's how he wants to pass his time away throughout his day and his night
DallasRain's Avatar
If you don't speak up it's your fault. If you're a business owner and you have no clue how to run your business (by speaking up) and you don't know when closing time is then you should just do volunteer work and hang out after hours for fun. Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
ditto...
maybe about 5 minutes till time is up,ask the gent if he would like to freshen up as time is nearing an end..but say it sweetlyand not demeaning...also you could have a cd set to time out around sessions ending
good luck!
DallasRain's Avatar
oops
hardroad69's Avatar
Put your robe on sweetheart. That should tell the louse that the party is over.....lol
RyanFromTER's Avatar
When I see a lady starting to get dressed that usually a clue. But whatever.
Since he's obviously enjoying your company tremendously, take the opportunity to ask if he'd like to schedule another time with you before he leaves.
Since he's obviously ENJOYING ABUSING your TIME tremendously, take the opportunity TO KICK HIM OUT! Originally Posted by quinnsseductive
I don't know about you but when I've put in my time at work I like to go home, I don't like to hang out at the job off the clock just talking about nothing really.

Whores need to stay in their lane. 'TIME' is a valuable resource in our line of work. 'TIME' is money!

He is abusing her time. He needs to leave!!!!
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I agree with Seeking P. You need to save your energy for the clients that treat you correctly. Reward good behavior, not bad behavior. Good clients will appreciate it.

Screen very well, also for behavior. If people push boundaries screening they will always push boundaries. Don't take bad clients and avoid problems in the first place.

It will cost you more money to have bad clients than to have clients bash you. Plus, if you have a decent reputation guys can put two and two together. Nobody can destroy your business. Just say that it has been an hour. Just say it.
Great thread! Gives the John's on here a small look at how we are viewed by you ladies, as a paycheck.

Men next time you think she is really having an "O" reread this thread, she is acting for the cash. She is not having fun, it is work for her, she does not want you to lick her, touch her, nor have sex with her, she just puts up with you for as long as she gets paid. She pretends to like you only for repeat business. When she cares for you, she does not charge you a fee.

I know this going into every session, why I never over stay. It is my pleasure and her business. She is not having orgasms and she does not care.
^Well since you put it that way.
It's about time you finally picked up
on how things work around here.

Seriously, there is nothing domestic in a whores job description. Do you think this whore board is match.com and we're hooking up for a date or something?

I know I may seem pretty direct but it is what it is.

Ok, back to what the OP is talking about ....
The guy abused Helen's 'TIME' they were not having
a long walk in the park and they were not on a date.
Why is it you don't see anything wrong w/what your fellow hobbyist was doing to her?
Great thread! Gives the John's on here a small look at how we are viewed by you ladies, as a paycheck.

Men next time you think she is really having an "O" reread this thread, she is acting for the cash. She is not having fun, it is work for her, she does not want you to lick her, touch her, nor have sex with her, she just puts up with you for as long as she gets paid. She pretends to like you only for repeat business. When she cares for you, she does not charge you a fee.

I know this going into every session, why I never over stay. It is my pleasure and her business. She is not having orgasms and she does not care. Originally Posted by gentlemantoo
Brother, this surprises you? That's what this is. If we had the opportunity for an affair or woman outside of the hobby, you wouldn't be seeking escorts. It is what it is. You wouldn't pay for it if you didn't have to. That doesn't make these ladies bad. That makes any guys who think it's anything more than business a fool. I never question whether the Papa Johns deliverer cares about me when he delivers a pizza, or if the lady cutting my hair cares about me. Just cut my hair. If you're after love, meet a woman in real life and marry her like I did. Then you'll have access to sex everyday (lol right), she can be terrible in bed, and you can end up on eccie anyway lol.
DallasRain's Avatar
Not ALL of us are faking it... I actually get off multiple times in playtimes.... I am just an old chick who is over sexually charged!