Sugar Daddy Sites

What are good SD sites to join? Is there a significant difference between SD sites, paid membership vs free membership?

It was free to join the one I did, but I had to pay $50 to get premium membership so I could email and receive email. This was seekingarrangement.com It is a monthly fee.

Another such site was set up where you would Pay for a date with some gal to talk about a SD arrangement - something like $150 - $300. Sounds like a rip off site. I wont pay them to meet me for dinner, except maybe $20 gas money and for that kinda money can get gals itc at SC for sex. I will make them an offer for sex that works for me. I am sure many of the gals on the SD sites have no idea of the competition they are up against from strippers, Providers, etc.

There are detailed and long threads on this topic elsewhere on ECCIE, and you are adviswed to read them.

I have only used seekingarrangement.com

Not possible to categorise the girls on there. I have nothing to do with any girl who has a glamour photo, or uses the word 'princess' or 'expensive gifts' or anything like that.

Also only very few girls are above my minimum standards of attraction.

Having siad that, three or four girls a year, when I am looking, I have contacted, and half have ended on friendships. Some we immediately hit it off, and an intimate friendship starts the day we meet (maybe I buy her a coat or something). Others play a waiting game and my enthusiasm drops off - I can wait for two dates, but not three.

I don;t think any girl I have met is a provider or stripper, but that is maybe because I filter them out already (see above). If i wanted a provider I would go for a provider. If I wanted a young friend with whom I can hang out over a long period, I go for a SB.

My current UK SB, I only see her every couple of months or so, but then it is an overnight am we make up plenty for lost time.

My main experience is in UK, but I met up with a SB from same site in Houston and we met several times.

In my experience, just treat them as a date and be friendly, do not approach it as a business transaction, you will only (justifiably) get scorned and ridiculed.

But as I say, not possible to categorise, I am sure there are all types of guys and girls on these sites. Almost all girls I have met complain about the liars and creeps who have contacted them, so when they meet somebody half normal like me they are very happy.

Mr. Bill used to post in here about some of his experiences. I think he finally had to put a stop to it because of all the traffic at his place. They were bumping into each other. Not sure which site he used.

I have had 5 gals off Seeking Arrangement for $100-$150. 3 agreed to meet for session after a dinner date. The other 2 wanted to meet directly at motel.

Pros: They can really get into it and are flattered to be getting a contribution. They probably do not have the traffic a pro provider would have. I have gotten multiple fuks with some of them for no extra charge (one in fact requested it). One very experienced one I have been seeing is an x stripper / extras girl.

Cons: Many do not really have the experience of a stripper or provider. They can be tough to get a hold of sometimes and may not have the reliability of a good provider in hooking up. I think some of them are not really in the program. They are like a civilian prop job pilot trying to get into the cockpit of a military jet.

There are a number of strippers turned providers using sites like SA.Com. They are afraid of being found out by LE or BF / Hubby on a reg provider site. Their standard line is that they are looking for one man to meetup with in an arrangement. Translated: They want the SD to just do them that way they get all his money. I don't doubt they have multiple SD so the more they drain money from the merrier.

Very few men there are the typial sugar daddy. They think a pack of gum and paying a cable bill is going to get them laid once a week, every month bwahahah. Yea, keep that crap! Most are too cheap to even fork over a mere 200 an hour, much less 10k a month which is what it would take for most providers to quit and only be exclusive to them.

It's full of broke guys looking for cheap azz, and pretending to be SDs.

winner winner chicken dinner. once you get used to a certain rate of pay alot of that stuff can be time consuming and aggravating. if you have the time to weed through the BS go for it. I only struck oil once.

edit: just saw that op is not a girl.

Search is your friend.

go here to ask your question and find your answer

http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=1359

He's kinda limited if he doesn't have premium access...

You strike me a most critical woman, LR.

Do you think you would make a good sugar baby? I doubt it.

You have too many sharp edges and your negative attitude does not endear you to new customers or old ones, for that matter unless they like to be verbally abused.

. . . My personal advice is that you really should try to at least fake being a sweet girl and attract more customers.

Very few men there are the typial sugar daddy. They think a pack of gum and paying a cable bill is going to get them laid once a week, every month bwahahah. Yea, keep that crap! Most are too cheap to even fork over a mere 200 an hour, much less 10k a month which is what it would take for most providers to quit and only be exclusive to them.

It's full of broke guys looking for cheap azz, and pretending to be SDs. Originally Posted by London Rayne

London, no disrespect but most guys on those sites are not looking to give a girl that plows a 1000 guys a year 10K a month to quit. Those girl (you included) are the girls that SD try and stay away from.

Other than that comment you are correct. I would guess 95% of the guys on those sites are broke, cheap and have no idea how to actually get a girl to fuck them any other way. My opinion.. if you can't afford $50 a month to have a premium membership on one of the sites, then you have no business calling yourself a SD.

OP I will give you one piece of advice: Hookers, Strippers, Escorts, Providers.. whatever you want to call them are the worst SB girls there possibly is to have. Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever try and convert some GPS hooker into your main squeeze on the side. It never works.

Ahhh JF and his SD underground fantasy :-) I see U the prophet on that underground place of yours. I don't buy 95% of what you say.. It don't work and it don't add up mate, at least in the real world. Very rarely to find the right SB for the right price.

Luxury Daphne is right on the money and it goes both ways, for SB and SD's....

I just really don't understand if how you're trading money for time/sex/whatever how it really matters. As long as you're paying her, she's still only sleeping with you for the money. The only thing is she doesn't know how much could charge. Or like someone said, to stay UTR.

I'm not saying it doesn't work for some people, I'm sure it does, but it's very time consuming there's a lot of BS involved.

Ahhh JF and his SD underground fantasy :-) I see U the prophet on that underground place of yours. I don't buy 95% of what you say.. It don't work and it don't add up mate, at least in the real world. Very rarely to find the right SB for the right price.

Luxury Daphne is right on the money and it goes both ways, for SB and SD's.... Originally Posted by ivan

It does exist and it does work, but using the internet or any of the websites to find what you are looking for is nearly useless. Just like Match.com, eHarmony, etc are worthless in finding a partner, the success rate is so small.

You actually have to get off your ass, out of the house, and mix/ mingle and engage people.

Ivan.. whatever dude. You have fun with your.. whatever..