Which Donation is the correct one?

Question: Which Donation is the correct one?

After perusing the Houston Showcases; I denoted a discrepancy in the donations listed on the Provider's ECCIE Showcase and the donations listed on that Provider's website. Such said donations vary from $20 to $50 per hour. And because "any mention of money terminates the conversation and further contact, and any money talk at the start of the in/out-call terminates the Date"; it is a Catch-22 scenario.

If I pay the lower of the two amounts, I may deemed as a cheapskate.

If I pay the higher of the two amounts, I may only get to see two Providers in stead of three per week!

I would like to hear both the Hobbyist' and the Provider' thoughts on this subject.

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Well honestly I would pay the cheaper rate, it's not my fault she can't be consistent.

I'd just mention how much you like her showcase maybe that will clue her in

Well honestly I would pay the cheaper rate, it's not my fault she can't be consistent.

I'd just mention how much you like her showcase maybe that will clue her in Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

I agree! A lot of ladies jack the price up thinking you will not see one or the other...

But I also know that some sites have a drop down menu and the rates they have don't always match the rates I charge, so I have to pick the one closest to what I use, and some times it is off by 20, I have tried to adjust my rates so that they match on all sites.

Really, is there a question SHE advertised a cheaper rate, go with it and if she questions it then dont see her anymore cause she is a hassle....

The "safer" method would be to use the rate that was stated in the "mode of contact" that you utilize. If you contact her thro' the ECCIE showcase, use that rate. Or, if you contact thro' her website, use that rate. Well, the smart hobbyist would, of course, use the mode that states the cheaper rate.

Blame it on "hooker math"

The "safer" method would be to use the rate that was stated in the "mode of contact" that you utilize. If you contact her thro' the ECCIE showcase, use that rate. Or, if you contact thro' her website, use that rate. Well, the smart hobbyist would, of course, use the mode that states the cheaper rate. Originally Posted by Sarunga

I agree with Sarunga; but, still would prefer to use ECCIE to make the initial contact. I wish there was a way to verify Hobbyist on this site to make all this fun safer and easier to meet Providers.

Examples of donation disparity in Houston:
1. sexymscindy ECCIE donation 50 less per hour than her website.
2. sexyhannahhearte ECCIE donation 20 more per hour than her website.
3. AllisonofHouston ECCIE donation 20 more per 1.5 hours than her website.
4. Chislaine ECCIE donation 50 less per hour than her website.
5. jonnahouston ECCIE special "Mention the words Sport F***ing and get 25 off" did not seem to apply to our date.

Isabella**Houston, Brooke Wild, and candicevon are the only providers on my bucketlist whose ECCIE showcase donations match their website.

Check and see if the provider validates parking and gives Green Stamps, too.

I match mine as well, its easier that way. I would call and mention that you saw her on both and mention the "lower" rate and most likely she will be more than happy to see you for that.

I match mine as well, its easier that way. I would call and mention that you saw her on both and mention the "lower" rate and most likely she will be more than happy to see you for that. Originally Posted by bustyamy

In the original thread I stated that: ....because "any mention of money terminates the conversation and further contact, and any money talk at the start of the in/out-call terminates the Date"; it is a Catch-22 scenario.

I should have clarified my original thread and mentioned that the Provider and the Hobbyist have never met each other. This then makes my statement relevant to my issue here.

With regular Providers I have seen before, this would not be an issue, because we could all do as Bustyamy commented on. Thanks for your comments.

the Griffin

When contacting a provider I have always used phrasing such as . . .:"I wish to schedule a ** Hr session at you website rate (ASPD Special Rate, Rate seen on review Etc)". and thathas always worked for me.

Depends on if I'm a good witch or a bad witch that day..

I called one hooktard and told her I was dearhunter. I spelled it for her and everything. She quoted me $50 higher than her published rate. Then I said no not really this is boardman...Bitch hung up on me.

i hate to admit it but I get most of my calls from backpage, and although many of you talk alot of shit on the boards, when we meet you, it is different. I will be the first to admit that when I get a call and all they say is "whats up", or "i want to fuck you" if i dont hang up on them, and they get as far as aking what the donation is, If my first reaction was that i got a bad vibe from how he approached me, i will quote a higher price just to discourage him from showing up. I know that yall are the "customer" and you are the one giving the "donation" , but i am more willing to knock your socks of if i feel you know how to respect me. So take note guys. It is not a good look for you to talk to me like i am one of your home boys that you are hanging out with tonight...

and I said all of that to say that some times the lady may have felt uncomfortable with your initial contact, and felt she would rather not fake that she enjoyed your company. Maybe some of you shoud take that as a good thing, and look at it as you wont be posting a no or feel ripped off in the end.

As long as the donation is posted on her website, on her showcase or on P411 ... I would go with the lowest donation.

I would say the amount you should never go with is the donation that is listed on her reviews.