Covering your tracks (paranoid behavior)

utr_guy_in_houston's Avatar
Is anybody out there as paranoid as I am . . . about every 6 months I drop all my hobby email addresses, eccie handle and hobby phone numbers. Then I format my hard drive on my dedicated hobby computer and start over fresh establishing all new accounts. The reason I do this is I'm afraid someone may be on my tracks without my knowing. Maybe my wife hired a detective, or my sb gf decided to blackmail me or whatever. I feel like the 6 month purge will set them back to square one in their quest to ruin my life.

I was just wondering what you guys do to cover your tracks?
Jusanotherdude's Avatar
Thats more than I do, but a purge once or twice a year does happen...... My handle stays the same.... Hobby phone goes away..... Emails get shuffled, and yeah just as a general rule comp gets reformatted...... But I reformat all my computers 1-2 times a year........ Far as I'm concerned there is no such thing as being too cautious........

JaD
Every Fucken Day...



lol

just fucken with you.
I'd sure hate to be a married man in this hobby..
utr_guy_in_houston's Avatar
I'd sure hate to be a married man in this hobby.. Originally Posted by Valerie
agreed . . . but it's better than living a lifetime of sexual deprivation.
agreed . . . but it's better than living a lifetime of sexual deprivation. Originally Posted by utr_guy_in_houston
Understand, but I personally would never commit or stay in a relationship and be deprived of sex if it was non-existent or disappeared. Too many people do that, for the kids, for money, for convenience...not me.
CivilBarrister's Avatar
Understand, but I personally would never commit or stay in a relationship and be deprived of sex if it was non-existent or disappeared. Too many people do that, for the kids, for money, for convenience...not me. Originally Posted by Valerie
Agreed. That's why I am happily single, or should I say between marriages.
LexusLover's Avatar
... or should I say between marriages. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister
I thought the vast majority of us all are ..... "between marriages" ...

.. this one and the next one! ...... or that one and the next one!
LexusLover's Avatar
Is anybody out there as paranoid as I am . . . Originally Posted by utr_guy_in_houston
If "they" are really after you, you are not paranoid. And "they" are after you!

Oh, get ... "Ace Utilities" ... on line ... free trial for like 30 days ... then its 30 to 40 $.

... use it to "CLEAN" .... "deep" clean after the "delete" ... It does other stuff too.

As for "formatting" ... I hope you all do know that there are software programs "off the shelf " that can recover programs and data POST format ...

..... don't keep your data on your hard drive ... use a memory stick.

Also, don't set a pattern or routine of behavior and be aware of your surroundings (as in get your head out of your ass), and if you don't like "the feel" .. bail and don't look back ... clear the area .. try a call to the focus of your trip to let the person know. If that person gets pissed: #1 they knew about the "the feel" like or #2 they are not thinking with "the big head" and are being careless, which means you needed to avoid the trip in the first place. Remember: it's your ass not theirs.
Out_of_Bounds's Avatar
You are way too paranoid.
Don't hobby on your home pc.
Get an unlimited plan on a throwaway smart phone if you feel the need.
Keep it hidden, and secured.
Never change your routine.
Keep the lies stupid simple.
And if your the bread winner find subtle ways to remind her that she enjoys her lifestyle by your good graces.
Works for me.
pyramider's Avatar
You are way too paranoid.
Don't hobby on your home pc.
Get an unlimited plan on a throwaway smart phone if you feel the need.
Keep it hidden, and secured.
Never change your routine.
Keep the lies stupid simple.
And if your the bread winner find subtle ways to remind her that she enjoys her lifestyle by your good graces, then tell her to bend over daddy has a delivery.
Works for me. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Finished the one thought for you.
pyramider's Avatar
Just because you are paranoid does not mean someone is not out to get you.

If your wife has a detective of any worth ... he has already got you.
Rubchasertx's Avatar
I think the thread title sounds like a song title.
Beau Derierre's Avatar
I'd sure hate to be a married man in this hobby.. Originally Posted by Valerie
Married men are the best! They get the hobby thing, Single ones think they can marry an independent an take her out the industry. Just my .2
Married men are the best! They get the hobby thing, Single ones think they can marry an independent an take her out the industry. Just my .2 Originally Posted by SensualSpecialist
Oh I much prefer married clients to single ones don't get me wrong, was just referring to the fact that the married ones have to go through the trouble of keeping all of this a secret from their wives which has got to be a bit of a pain in the ass...