NO STARFISH AUCTION- just curious

I've never done anal before.. tried it with a couple of boyfriends once and it NEVER went down. The sensation of feeling like it was not going to fit and I was going to irrevocably torn was too intense. And I don't think he had me ready enough. Sometimes even the tip of a finger or a tongue is a little too much. On the other hand, I have a girlfriend who swears by it.. she's always either having somebody stick it out in her ass, or sticking somethin in her own ass lol...Says it's the best orgasm she's even had.. which makes me curious. Whatever case though, does anyone have any real tips on preparation and pleasure during someone's first few anal experiences?

Found a few references online, including this, http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_ti..._love_tip.html and this http://www.literotica.com/stories/sh....php?id=285798
but I wanna see what you guys have to say. Since ya'll were beggin for a new threAD lol

lube it up!

1. Find a partner who is patient and experienced. And not too large.
2. Lube. Lots and lots of lube.
3. Be relaxed. A warm bath, and a glass or two of wine are a great idea.

i love anal and handle quite a bit. It is a fab orgasm. Its about being patient at first starting with smaller items like butt plugs etc to stretch the skin and adjust Yourself to the feeling. i always cleanse well front and back w different water bottles before a session, and yes lots of lube. Once You get use to it Double penetration is even better.

Grl....i dont offer it either but tomorrow im going to go get alittle vibrating bullet and practice with it...
i was told that is the best way to get started....them jump up to a small dildo then a bigger one...
at least that was what i was told to do by several men on here...and then again some say they can help with that situation...lmao

I like this discussion. Let's get some more ladies in on this!

You gotta want it. I found that if a girl really wants it, it is a lot easier than a girl who is just doing for you. Be relax.

I tried this once and it went well. We started regular and built it up. When she said she was ready, I started messaging her back and shoulders, running my fingers lightly on her back and then I stuck it in and she was good. It was slow at first but I built speed and she loved it. And she told me, it was a great orgasm.

It has to be done right, lots of lube and stretch the skin with a finger first and add more if you can to get it open. Also play with your clit at the same time. Just have to be patient or you have a partner they have to be patient. ANAL is the most AWESOME orgasm! I love ass and like to give and receive.

S l O W l Y

Seriously, like BlowPop said, find a guy who has patience and will TAKE HIS TIME.

All the lube in the world won't make you feel good if he goes in too fast.

HE has to enter as YOU relax.....and you only relax a second or 2 at a time, before you tense up again the first few times.

AND he may only be able to enter fractions of inches at a time - and to you it may still feel too big/too quick.

There are many guys who have successfully helped ladies enjoy this and many many more who have turned ladies completely off to this.

Toys can also help, but it really is easier with someone who knows what they are doing.

Start with an old guy who can't last long and has a really small organ ....

You should definitely start out 'practicing' by yourself first with something small. Then you can slowly work your way up to bigger and better things at your own pace until you feel like you are ready for the real thing.

When you think you are ready to try it with a partner you need to be the one that is controlling the action. The key is to be relaxed as possible( a few drinks, a few orgasms, whatever helps you relax), use lots of lube, and take it very, very slowly. It takes a little time for the muscles to relax. If you go too fast the muscles contract and it will hurt.

You might want to experiment with different positions. What worked for me was the spooning position. It's easy to relax in this position and you can start off with him just teasing and rubbing it on you until you are worked up enough to really want it. Then when you feel like you have to have it you can reach behind you and slowly guide it in. Your partner just needs to be still and let you push up against him and take it in at your own speed until you are comfortable. It might take a few tries but once you get the hang of it there is nothing quite like it!

Oh, and if you are into porn watching some good anal scenes can certainly help get you in the mood.

Ok, I'm done, where is that vibrator?

Daphne;Cam you PM me your girl friend phone number;

Daphne;Cam you PM me your girl friend phone number; Originally Posted by Captain Gus

The good Captain beat me to it, I was going to ask the same thing

Hey ... All I could come up with was to start a threAD asking if clients prefer coke or pepsi at a providers incall. So don't knock yourself ... this is a great threAD!

I know we have more ladies to give some input...