Question Gents

If you are about to have a session with an awesome looking provider and she is dressed well and just really looks hot, does it kill it if she opens her mouth a ghetto speak comes out? If she looks classy and speaks 5th ward language does it turn you off?

nawp. we'd still kick it then I'd invite her out to Frenchey's Chicken afterwards.

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oops this isn't the hole. cleaned up some for the good citizens of coed

Oh absolutely! I hate that!
And when they have some ghetto ringtone when I call.
I immediately hang up.
That tells me "pimped" right away.

If you are about to have a session with an awesome looking provider and she is dressed well and just really looks hot, does it kill it if she opens her mouth a ghetto speak comes out? If she looks classy and speaks 5th ward language does it turn you off? Originally Posted by sofiaofhouston

I know a few people from 5th ward and none of them speak "ghetto". I think that if you had any sense you would have used the term "ignorant". Your post reeks of classism and racism .....

Garbage in Garbage out Covers it for me

Yes, it certainly would be a buzz kill but since I'm already there and fronted the donation I would push through.

I know a few people from 5th ward and none of them speak "ghetto". I think that if you had any sense you would have used the term "ignorant". Your post reeks of classism and racism ..... Originally Posted by Bumpy_Deek

She didn't say anything about 5th ward or being racist. There are shitloads of white trash girls across the country that speak ghetto shit. Its got nothing to do with the color of a girls skin.

sofiaofhouston: The simple answer is YES.

She didn't say anything about 5th ward or being racist. There are shitloads of white trash girls across the country that speak ghetto shit. Its got nothing to do with the color of a girls skin. Originally Posted by Jack Flash

Actually her last sentence mentions 5th ward, ijs.

Actually her last sentence mentions 5th ward, ijs. Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

Damn I didn't see that.

Yes . . .Ghetto-speak is an instant turn-off. I'll tollerate some lack of sophistication, poor education and even ignorance, but Eebonics is a deal breaker. I'm just not that horney and there are plenty of classy providers out there.

What bothers me the most is the text language so many of them use

to me nothing's hotter than a sexy ass black chick that sounds white. Odd, but I'm black and grew up around them.

For me, the "country" or typical black american female voice is associated with a lot of stuff that's non-sexually appealing: The church woman, the sexually restrictive woman 'ugh..yall nasty', the hobby degrading ("you's a trick ass n***"), the stuck up, etc.. It's odd. Even the term "I wanna fuck the shit out of you" coming from a black chick with a "black accent" in a way sounds a bit more disingenuine than if a woman with a "proper" or "white" accent says it. It's like she wants to do it to satisfy herself or get some money whereas when it comes from a more "white sounding" voice for me it triggers porno fantasies of women who want to mutually enjoy sex. I know the shit I'm saying sounds fucked up, and I know there are ghetto or country or black sounding chicks that can speak and talk dirty and turn me on but I guess I'm predisposed to a certain environment and based on experiences growing up watching white pornography there's a certain way I think.

For all the black men on this site, let's do a test. I'm going to throw out some quotes and you tell me what racial association comes immediately to your mind.

"I don't do that" "uugh, that's naty" "ugh ugghn" you imagined that coming from a "black" voice

Now take "I want to suck your cock till you cum" "fuck me hard" and you imagine a white voice saying that.