Just Wondering?

John Bull's Avatar
I've looked at a number of good looking, priced right ladies in the last week or so only to have to ditch them and go on to another. Why? They are all CBJ! Now far be it from me to tell a lady that she shouldn't be CBJ if she wants or if she thinks that's the way to protect herself (it isn't). But, there are a lot, let's say most, guys out there who won't pay for time if all they're going to get is a pale imitation of a real experience.
So ladies, if you feel you aren't getting your due, you might want to look at what you're offering and do some adjusting. Just saying!!
Every lady has the choice to charge and offer as she pleases.

Check menus and do's/don'ts before contacting. Be sure to read reviews so you don't waste your time or theirs.



You might find more low priced ladies doing BBBJ on HX than here (it is very active in OC.LA and less so for SD but there is more than here for sure).
professoreccie's Avatar
It is harder to find a BBBJ in Cali than probably any other part of the country so I guess I am just use to the safety girls out here. It doesn't bother me as long as the menu matches the donation rate.
John Bull's Avatar
I know it varies with the part of the country you're in. Personally, I don't deal with cbj girls. I know the guys in Nebraska have actually taken an oath among themselves not to patronize a cbj lady. In my part of the country if a lady goes cbj she might as well leave the business. Traveling cbj's who show up are dumbfounded to find No Dates.
So, who are the bbbj ladies in SD...assuming there are more than 3 ladies in San Diego
professoreccie's Avatar
If you think finding a BBBJ out here is hard try to find a CIM. In 2 years I have only found about 4 and 2 of them disappeared before I had a chance to visit them a second time (also expect the up charge). As far as finding a BBBJ if you ever come up to northern Cali I will point you in the right direction. There are some very nice ladies around southern Cali, Goldie is the unoffial spokesperson for them , you just have to look around.
John Bull's Avatar
Professor, I have no doubt these ladies are niceness personified. They don't post, but they're nice - Goldie as the exception. She's nice and she posts.
I'm just trying to point out the difference between other parts of the country and SD. I know I was a bit shocked to see such a major difference but I'm sure things will change here in SD as time goes by. Especially when the girls find out that it's safe and they make more when they do it.
MaxShaft's Avatar
Hey Ms. GoldieKnox. Your comment is interesting. Here in Houston, generally, the lower the fee a provider charges, the more you expect CBJ. Most of the hobbyists expect a fee of => $200 by a provider that BBBJ comes with the territory. So, I find your observation to be interesting of the reverse trend in SD.

Max
lookingood's Avatar
Variety and the spice of life meets the donation and availability across the US. I use P-411 to search for the specialties and rates as I travel so much. Most times I have my favorites in each of those cities that provide what I want at the price I'm willing to pay. 411 and eccie do come in handy when availability issues come up. John keep looking, there out there......
John Bull's Avatar
I'm sure of that as there is little room left on my calendar.
CryptKicker's Avatar
Here you go John: http://www.gypsyofsd.com/home.html

On P411 right now so she is active. And TER: http://www.theeroticreview.com/revie...w.asp?ID=86993

Shows BBBJ on her activities on P411 and looks like a reasonable rate.
CryptKicker's Avatar
John Bull's Avatar
Thanks CK! I'm booked now but if an opening appears, Gypsy looks like a great replacement.
@Maxshaft - my reference was in terms of HX ladies, many of whom tour from other areas and are advertising on a more "competitive" market
universalenergy's Avatar
On P411 there is 120 local providers in SD and 51 provide BBBJ. That is 42.5 %. They are out there.
In Houston CBJ can be a show stopper.
It is harder to find a BBBJ in Cali than probably any other part of the country so I guess I am just use to the safety girls out here. It doesn't bother me as long as the menu matches the donation rate. Originally Posted by professoreccie
Well said