I've looked at a number of good looking, priced right ladies in the last week or so only to have to ditch them and go on to another. Why? They are all CBJ! Now far be it from me to tell a lady that she shouldn't be CBJ if she wants or if she thinks that's the way to protect herself (it isn't). But, there are a lot, let's say most, guys out there who won't pay for time if all they're going to get is a pale imitation of a real experience.
So ladies, if you feel you aren't getting your due, you might want to look at what you're offering and do some adjusting. Just saying!!