How do you like your oral?

So Classyteri in her thread indicates there's not much discussion going on so I thought I might try to stir some up!

Gents - do you eat pussy? If so, what techniques seem to work the best? How do you like to have your dick sucked? Covered or uncovered? Slow and deliberate or fast and furious - hands or no hands - do you like the tip of your dick sucked - do you like to have your balls sucked - how about TUMA?

Ladies - what dick sucking techniques seem to work best for you? How do you like to have your pussy eaten - slow and gentle or fast and rough - do you like having your clit sucked or just some tongue work?

As for me, I've found that gentle licking and sucking of the clit seems to work best with most women but some, like MistyCC like it rough and fast! I enjoy the Hell out of eating pussy when the girl responds well and gives me direction as to what feels the best!

As for having my dick sucked - I've had some fantastic CBJs but my preference is BBBJ. DT and running her tongue around my dick while she engulfs it is amazing but my all time favorite is going down slowly to the base of my shaft and the back out to the tip, while sucking the whole time! The Zen master of dick sucking has got to be London Rayne with Alpha and Slave G. In Corpus Cha Cha has amazing skeeels as well as Misty and some others - admittedly I've maybe forgotten how good some are because I've had so many great blow jobs! I do recall one epic dick sucking girl - Super Sasha, had my dick completely engulfed within 60 seconds of entering her room, while looking up at me with that "I love to suck dick" look!
Super Sasha could give classes on how to give a bj. She is hands down the best I have ever had, and I have had some great bj's. I think attitude and effort are more important than skill and technique.
I like when a man takes his time eating me. It makes it more exciting for me.

Now as for how to give a bj....well I can't explain that one. I can demonstrate that for you.
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Good one, Louigi...

Oral is like a box of chocolates...etc.

...without a doubt, my favorite part of any encounter (in or out of the hobby) is discovering how each person's oral style lines up. Sometime you get it right on the first try...sometimes...you've gotta figure it out....practice makes perfect.

I have one GF who can climb on my face and right it like a bronco while taking a rapid fire tongue lashing...and another GF who can barely tolerate the lightest, feathery flicks.

I've read a lot of reviews where guys will describe a perfect BJ as having "all mouth, no hand"...and others where "hand" plays an important part.

To each his own...and here's to figuring it out!



I like when a man takes his time eating me. It makes it more exciting for me.

Now as for how to give a bj....well I can't explain that one. I can demonstrate that for you. Originally Posted by Majestycctx
I do think "figuring it out" is half the fun.
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Twice a day with a CIM finish!
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Is there such a thing as a bad bareback blow job? Some are better than others. Each provider has a different way of doing it and I like the diversity.

When I was in collage some of my best friends were lesbians and they gave me lessons on how to make them happy. I think they enjoyed laughing at me but I enjoyed the lessons. I enjoy giving as much as getting.
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I've had pretty good luck with getting oral from Misty, while Teri is giving her oral...then giving Misty oral, while she gives it to Teri...and so on...and so on...usually saving the big finish for Teri at the helm.
Is there such a thing as a bad bareback blow job? Originally Posted by Hunter361
Yes there is, but bad cbj is easier to find than bad bbbj.
My answers to the OP...

No, I don't daty. I just don't enjoy it. If the session length is more than 30 minutes, I'll employ other techniques to help make the session mutually enjoyable.

I like DT the most, but have found most BJs enjoyable when the lady is comfortable. So, if it seems as if she's doing something she'd really rather not do, it makes Mr. Happy sad.

I would love to find someone who can tongue my balls while she DTs me, and I'm also looking for a CIM/COF combo ending, but won't complain if it doesn't happen.
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I have got to say that I have met my match today in CC...hands down the quickest to get me to my standing ovation..lol.
To remain nameless,but not shameless!

I enjoy a bit of teasing first..use the tip of your tongue and twirl it around my clit area.
Get familiar with it..once you feel my leg twitch, go from there.
I like to be licked until you feel me dripping,then insert the finger :-P
Not to rough..i will let u know when i want it deeper.
For the grand finale, start sucking and use your tongue while your fingers penetrate my good spot!!!! I love it ;-)
Rinse and Repeat..lol

As for giving, i am more of sensual DT kind of girl.
I always like to see how far it will fit down my throat.
As i know most men are visual, i add a bit of spit shine and slurp it all up!
Licking down from the balls to the tip..each time taking you to the edge ;-)
So much fun!!
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Free is always a good start.
I would love to find someone who can tongue my balls while she DTs me, and I'm also looking for a CIM/COF combo ending, but won't complain if it doesn't happen. Originally Posted by emptywallet
You need to hook up with The Alpha in SA!
Great subject Louigi!!! As for giving....I love a good dick to suck on! As for how I do it...well from the tip to the base! Slow and nice...good and wet...tongue wrapping around from top to bottom (some balls included)...or hard and fast... with hand wrapped in perfect harmony with the movement of my tongue and bobbing of my head....I love seeing the look on a gents face when he exploads with that toe curling satisfaction....it is so satisifying for me...no complaints thus far...As for pussy....I love both giving and receiving! I love a nice clean soft pussy...spreading those lips and licking and gently sucking on a clit...same for me receiving....sometimes slow and easy ...sometimes a lil rough...Mistycc ...FIV...It all depends on the gentleman and or lady and how we are feeling....Every session is different...I love hearing the moaning of satisfaction....it turns me on...altho I am a pretty quiet one...as some of you no....Reguardless....I LOVE ORAL!!!
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With oral on a man ... it's generally always different. Everyone seems to have different movements that they prefer.

Some prefer a hand to be going up and down the shaft while working my lips all around the other. Sometimes, hard. Most of the time, more of a tease and a slow workup is what many men just adore.

Gosh ... books have been written about oral sex techniques. I muddle through the best that I can. I think that I do a pretty decent job of it.

I'm a bit different with oral sex on me. I prefer a softer touch. Sucking and worse, biting, will cause me to scream out and hit the ceiling. I'm sensitive.

What I would suggest, for men, is that they recognize that every woman is different.

But this type of topic isn't really for this group. I mean, ALL of the people responding (male and female) really wish to be great in bed, regardless of activities.

Who needs to be reading this are the people who just don't have a clue on how to be good in bed. But they're not here. It's still a very good topic, louigi!!! thanks