Newbie Nightmare

Hello everyone!

So, let me share my newbie experience just yesterday this occurred.
I spent 2 hours, PMs back and forth. He had no posts, no references and not a P411.
Newly joined ECCIE…..within 30 days.
HHMMM. My first thought, is…ok, do I wanna give this guy a chance? He was inexperienced and through our communication, I tried to guide him.
In the end, I agreed to meet. GUESS WHAT…..he was a NO SHOW.
There are times that I will tolerate this. But for me having to drive 30 mins to my incall….and prepare myself, as I like to be fresh and inticing ;-)
The NEWBIE promised me…..you will not regret. UUUHHH HuuHH….yeah, right.

This guy would not give out his cell #....even after booking the appointment. Yea, that could mean disaster. I did not know him…..BUT YET gave him MY # to call when he arrived. Waiting.....waiting....waiting , he finally sent me a message – via ECCIE PM – stating that he got caught up with work and could not make it. This was an hour after our scheduled appointment. He said he tried to call but got a message "unreachable".
Whaaaaa? It is not a "buy off the shelf" phone. I do not get his story.

It was total BS. I spent so much time clearing this guy (2 hrs, on and off)….and then agreeing to meet….but in the end I got fucked. Unfortunately, not literally. … ha!

So…..to all NEWBIES. Don’t be so “cocky” that you know everything. DON’T screw a provider when the stakes are high. DON’T think you have control…..cuz you don’t. RESPECT the time and effort the girls go through to make an appointment happen. For GODS SAKE !!!

This guy is MUDD to me. I WILL make it known with other providers.

That’s my story….and I’m stickin with it.

But still fun to be with! Yoooo hooo !!!
Xxoo
Torre

Sorry :-((. But fuck me you have a smokin' body!!

Thanks Rango!
You have 1 review and 60 posts out there.
Gaining prevelance on the board takes time. NEWBIES take note !!!

Rango.....perhaps we should meet !!!

Muuuah!
Torre

Um, I'd have kept that appointment...come hell or high water. Rangoon is right, smokin'!

First noob mistake...no hobby phone. And palpable fear. What if Starsky and Hutch are waiting there? What if she's gross? What if my wife has a PI following me? What if my dick turns green and falls off? EEEEEEK!

+1 on Rango's comment

ROFLMAO (as PT4ME would say...bTW....u guys know he is down and out right)?

ok....not to change the subject,
but yes.....Phildo....I am loving your comment !!!!!

well i just don't know how i have missed you, damn smokin hot bod. i like your attitude as well.

sorry this happened but i think your pm is about to blow up.

happy hobbying
~fletch

Fletch....OMG.....Caddyshack rules !!!

Thanks guys.....I needed a mental booster.

Kisses!!
TT

I have to agree with all the comments regarding your smokiness!

Sorry that happend to you love, I love youre spirit too.. lol..

Maybe he chicken out...
It's lame that he just pm you instead of calling.

Thanks Rango!
You have 1 review and 60 posts out there.
Gaining prevelance on the board takes time. NEWBIES take note !!!

Rango.....perhaps we should meet !!!

Muuuah!
Torre Originally Posted by Torre Tames

For someone with 141 posts and 3 reviews in 18 months of membership, it seems imprudent to throw the "newbie" title around. You may have some years in the business, and may be all kinds of experienced, but it certainly doesn't look that way from the web-viewer's POV.

You took a risk on a new client. That's awesome that you would give the guy a chance. But it comes with risks. And clearly, you decided it was worth some risk. I'm sorry he wasted your time. But unless you are naming someone specific, this seems like a random vent. We ALL hate time wasters. So this isn't news.

As a "general lesson" to newbies, you aren't helping much. Add in the "DON’T think you have control…..cuz you don’t. " is a pretty lousy business attitude. (Besides..it appears he did have control, even if it was at your expense) Both sides have a measure of control: one to provide a service, the other to provide a fee. If both don't work together, no one wins. EVERYONE should respect someone else's time, or risk the consequences of being labeled a bad hobbyist or provider.

And while this co-ed forum has gone lousy w/ NC/NS complaints, at least you got a message. Not that it makes the wasted time better, but many have had worse. He at least extended some level of courtesy. (Though too little too late.) This hardly reads as "newbie nightmare." Nightmares get much worse when you take those risks. A couple of wasted hours is nothing compared to an unscreened visitor who may be violent, law enforcement or something along those lines.

If every post is an ad for your business, the original may not have been the best calculated one.

Oh….hey MR BLA BLA…(Duke of G)
Thanks for giving your opinion on this thread.
You seem like a very staunch and bitter person. My condolences.

I DO BELIEVE….for what you’ve stated….should probably be discussed in another manner than this thread. Feel free to PM or email me. We could have a most informative discussion.
Unfortunately we don’t have access to ASPD anymore.. you would definitely get a clue to my experience in this BIZ if so.

Should I defend my statistics on ECCIE? (141 posts and 3 reviews in 18 months) Hmmm…funny but my posts speak of the importance of low profile the last two years.
Guess that takes some research on your part and might be a bit too cumbersome for you.

It’s my policy to stay out of the lime light…which is better for my personal life. Balance is good. Some engaging activity is always relevant, but too much of anything is not good. Get my point?
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So, what is this thread about? Oh yes…..

NEWBIES and HOBBY ETTIQUITE:

The “control” I stated was that I will consider informing several of my Provider friends to be aware of this guy…..and also could list him on the DO NOT SEE scroll with a couple of websites that providers refer to. He may not be able to see quality providers if his name/email/handle appears on these lists

NEWBIES……and Hobby Etiquette.
There is such a thing as hobby etiquette. Learn it, Live it, and roll with it…..between the sheets and beyond. It starts from first contact.


Gotta Love it !!
TT
p.s. why did I spend half of this post defending myself? HOGWASH !!

I thinck what Torre is meaning to say is that newbies should stick with downloading porn. And Torre is wishing newbies would end up with carpal tunnel syndrome from downloading all that porn. But I may be wrong ...

Pyrmider.....I cannot stop laughing. I will be laughing in my sleep tonight! Ha....ha....ha....ha!!! for real !!!! Yes! Carpal Tunnel and Porn is the answer !!! I'm blowing a gasket here....ha...lol @!