Top 5 attributes you must have in your provider?

If you had to list the top five most important things about a provider- they would be?


Examples(please feel free to add your own):

Looks
Rates
Chemistry
Location
Personality
GFE Provider Acronyms
GFE Provider “ Intimate” Intimacy
PSE Provider
Age
Reviews
Discretion
Being Prompt
Hair Color
Boob Size
Ass Size
Race
Experience
High Volume
Low Volume
Good Listner
Weight
Time Availability
Incall Location

Will be interesting to see people’s responses using your list here are my top 5

Looks
Chemistry
Personality
GFE
Reviews

Looks
Size
Chemistry
GFE with Passion
Time availability matches mine.

first is - Am I attracted to her? Looks
Next is - how old is she? I only see Ladies over 30
Next is - Can I afford her? Rates
Next is - Is her menu consistant with my desires? reviews
next is - Is she geographically desirable?

Looks
Weight
Rates
Location
The rest I can deal with!

Hardhat644

• Looks (slender to HWP; attractive face/smile)
• Normal "GFE menu" is available
• Personality (warm, friendly, outgoing)
• Professional/responsible/reliable
• Can escape the dreaded "provider mindset" -- "I want to show him a good time because he's a valued client and I take price in my work" -- and react to me like a real person

Of course, the last item -- like "connection"/chemistry -- can't be judged accurately in advance; it's not so much a factor in making an initial choice as in deciding whether to go back.

• How well schedule and location match my needs
• Intelligent/good at conversation

are also important. And for that matter, while Rate is not a constraint within normal limits, it can be in extreme cases, e.g., a HDH whose minimum is $2,500 is not going to get my business.

Here are my five:

1.Chemistry
2.GFE w/ Passion
3.Appearance
4.Location
5.Rates

Like Chevalier said some things "can't be judged accurately in advance..." But with that in mind here would be my top five.

1. Personality and Attitude

Of these two attitude is the most important. I've been with some "off beat" personalities that were a lot of fun because of great attitudes. Character is also important (honesty, etc.) but I'm not certain it would fit in here.

2. Healthiness, Conditioning, Hygiene, and General Physical Well Being

There may be one word to describe this but I can't think of it at the moment.

3. Physical Attractiveness and Appearance

This is more than just physical beauty. It would include how a lady presents herself. I've known some average types that always left me thinking I wanted to see more of them. Beauty can be "projected."

4. Location

Time is valuable. There are some fine ladies on the far side of the Moon (Fort Worth) I wouldn't mind seeing but I just can't afford the trip. Which leads to.............

5. Costs

Taking a weeks trip to a tropical island in February with an HDH would be great but can I afford to miss that much work?

Wow, after deleting the obvious things that are irrelevant to me, the list is still at 17. Didn't know I was so damn picky.

After much thought; my top five, in no particular order:

Chemistry - Physical and mental (without being able to engage the mind, the physical seems rather mechanistic)

Age/Experience - As young as my daughter just does not work for me

Location/Rates - I must manage travel time and budget

Looks/Body/Boobs - I agree with the earlier comment that beauty is more than physical, a woman that "projects" beauty, that has a presence, wow, that takes my breath away (and my money too). But I am not all high minded philosophy, I really enjoy well endowed women.

Discretion/Being Prompt - In a word, professional

Looks (beauty, inside and out)
Shape (the cheerleader type)
Butt (I love a perky, tight ass)
Intelligence (yes)
Skill (I love good sex)

1. Intelligence/common sense/discretion
2. Looks sufficient to make me lust
3. Low volume/enthusiasm for the game
4. Age, with rare exception, 30 and over. None under age 25.
5. Rates

Things that might make me initiate contact:

Looks
Discretion
Personality
Location
Reputation

Things that will make me want to repeat:

Chemistry
Passion
Good conversation
Discretion
Looks

CloudDancer - That was a very good idea to include things that will make you want to repeat!

MSOG?
BBBJ?
Affordable?
Attraction?
Passionate?


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Here they are from my stand point! In no particular order of course.

1) Maturity, I prefer to spend my time with a womanwho is closer to my own age, alright, maybe a little younger

2) Intelligence, I like a woman who can hold a meaningful conversation. We need to connect mentally as well as physically

3) Location, all of my visits are mid day so someone who is close to the office is a must

4) Looks, the physical attraction is very important

5) This is a toss up of rates and ease of scheduling. If it is too hard to get a hold of someone to set up an appointment Ifind my self reading the reviews looking for someone else who I can reach. But how much the afternoon will end up costing me is an item I always look at as well.