Attn Newbies: Stick with the well reviewed providers!

For all the newbies lurking this site, take it from me (a newbie myself) and just say no to BP. I just paid for your lesson this weekend.

I was in st louis for business and attempted to connect with providers on this site. I unfortunately didn't have any luck because of my lack of reviews, so I resorted to BP. This is where all the hobby veterans would gasp and say "told you so".

Lets just say, the girl was not the girl in her pics, hard earned money was spent on an unpleasant session, and she dug through my toiletry bag and made off with a brand new bottle of cologne.

This could happen to you! Luckily, it was just cologne and I had all my other belongings stashed away in the closet. I just forgot about my bag of shaving cream, toothpaste, and cologne which was left in the bathroom. Apparently this provider was kind enough to not overlook the bag for me. Lesson learned!

If you can't find legit reviews on the woman, then move on. I took the risk, and it obviously wasn't worth it. Additionally, by seeing a woman on BP you can't really build your hobby "resume" for future providers you wish to visit.

Now, time for me pick myself up from this shameful mistake and focus on building up my resume. Its bonus season for me!!

But there are several providers including myself who do advertise on BP. I can name atleast 10 reputable providers that advertise on here AND on backpage.
It is not the website that is the problem, it is simply not doing your research on the person you choose that is the problem.
There are several reputable ladies on BP that are NOT members on eccie, although they have great reviews.
Just make sure you do your homework on whoever you choose no matter which website she is from. If you don't know and cant find anything on the lady you are interested in simply post a topic about her in the ISO section and I am sure someone will be glad to help you do some research on the lady.
Sorry for your loss sweetie, and make sure you let the men know who she is so they will steer clear!

Research, research, research!

But there are several providers including myself who do advertise on BP. I can name atleast 10 reputable providers that advertise on here AND on backpage.
It is not the website that is the problem, it is simply not doing your research on the person you choose that is the problem.
There are several reputable ladies on BP that are NOT members on eccie, although they have great reviews.
Just make sure you do your homework on whoever you choose no matter which website she is from. If you don't know and cant find anything on the lady you are interested in simply post a topic about her in the ISO section and I am sure someone will be glad to help you do some research on the lady.
Sorry for your loss sweetie, and make sure you let the men know who she is so they will steer clear!

Research, research, research! Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

I think he worded it wrong babe, Im thinking he meant to put only bp providers without being on eccie, p411 or any other reputable site with reviews of some sort. Idk I could be wrong.. but yes the lil head needs to research research research.

yes, thanks olindsay for clarifying. destiny, if i found your ad on bp, i could cross reference your info with review sites so i know you're legit. even though i knew to do this, mr happy became a little desperate and failed to think straight. just wanted to share so others wouldn't have to go through the same..

yes, thanks olindsay for clarifying. destiny, if i found your ad on bp, i could cross reference your info with review sites so i know you're legit. even though i knew to do this, mr happy became a little desperate and failed to think straight. just wanted to share so others wouldn't have to go through the same.. Originally Posted by green_betta

No problem babe.. I figured that's what you meant sweetheart .

Well I am just glad you are safe sweetie. Sorry you lost your bottle of cologne and I hope your next experience is much more enjoyable