Ive been looking for an nice upscale..variety mixed swingers club to become a member of in the Houston/katy area. For the times when i just wanna let loose and either put on a show or just watch one for fun!
Does anyone know of any??
Things to remember about house parties.Bi-single women are the unicorn in the swinger lifestyle,,,That's the most coveted position,,,Well-run swinger parties don't invite unruly single men unless they have been vouched and know the rules,,,That means NO is NO,,,The married male half of a couple is better equipped psychologically and socially in handling his affairs compared to most single men,,,There are plenty of gang bang groups that help lone women fulfill their GB fantasies, but they are usually run by BF, husband, and other groups,,,They aren't usually free,,, Private parties are much better than the public parties that attract the voyeuristic and exhibitionistic types that do more socializing and drinking than actual playing,,,Contact info and "fit" can be gathered from these public meets,,,Single men at the public parties can be a major nuisance because they think paying a high fee for entrance gives them a pass to play,,,However, single men are permitted to approach single women (unlikely to happen) and couples and request play but they have to be polite and respectful and should not expect an immediate yes,,,Swingers really do like to get to know the people with whom they play,,,If a single woman is interested in playing with one man in particular which I personally find implausible in the swing community unless it's one of those top and bottom fetish fantasies, she should approach a couple,,,This woman should expect to play in a threesome or at the very least to be bi-friendly with the female half of the couple,,,Most swinging couples' ultimate desire is to hook up with the female unicorn and second to do some swapping with another couple,,,Swingers generally don't engage in MFM and GBs and if they do, it's a rare treat. A large proportion of swingers are very much engaged in developing some kind friendship with their play partners.
1. Don't be the unicorn.
2. There will be unattractive ladies and guys.
3. Bring a bag with your shit. (Lingerie, towels, wipes, rubbers, lube, shit that you want. Don't count on other motherfuckers to have everything you need to get in the mood)
4. Be prepared to get molested. Motherfuckers are real touchy feely.
And most importantly 5. Don't be the unicorn unless you want a lot and I mean a lot of attention.
Oh yea. No man should approach you. Only ladies should ask you to play.
If you see a dude you want to fuck, talk to his lady and allow her to introduce you to him. Originally Posted by canihitit