First Time Advice For A Newbie?

Anyone have any advice for a newbie's first foray? Might be a little nervous.

Always finger and smell your fingers before you eat it.

Always finger and smell your fingers before you eat it. Originally Posted by jl11

Lol

from a known provider/agency than take any chances on BP. Earn your credentials and refs from someone reputable then it gets easier down the road.

Be polite, be a gentleman, do your reserch on the lady you'd like to see. It is important to also know the rules of the hobby :-)
Good luck!

1. Never let people know your new. They will take advantage any small way they can. Especially if your seeing a non verified lady.

2. Chose a lady who is not only a good references to others, but provides a proven one of a kind experience if it's a professional. Who you choose as references is just as important as who you see. They represent youin a sense....especially if your review them.

3. Until u get two refs.......butter up your reviews or don't even post one......some ladies are very sensitive if you are honest about your session. You can either tell it like it is, be the guy who is fully subjective, or the guy who only touches on the positive and butters up their reviews. Or the guy that focuses on the negative. The first two get you kudos. The later two make your reviews soft. Unless descriptive. Honesty is not always to your benefit during your first two newbie reviews and will gain u enemies with time......for no reason. Lol if she has a crooked front tooth......a missing eye.....but she sucks a mean dick and fucks you exquisitely well dont say nothing about the negative side much. Soldier it out. Let it go like the main characters song in the Disney movie Frozen. Try to word ur reviews in a way where you could honestly say it to her face and still maintain your testicular fortitude.....to match her ovarian audacity.......

4. If you have no intention on returning to see the initial two ladies you saw.......dont use them as a reference more than three times. Not all but some ladies get jelly if you use them as a ref to see other ladies. They will invent the excuse of well I saw him but it was so long ago.....i can't remember him.....but if u wanna see her again she has a selective memory and u seeing her is permissable.

5. Don't write any reviews.....and act like the new guy for a few verified independents. Pretend their your first. They will all show and prove for you and pander and cater to u. Thank them for seeing you and granting you pity screening due to the fact your a newbie. Lol.

6. Offer to bring her favorite bottle drink or spirit. Most times these ladies could use a stiff one before seeing most of us. She's will appreciate the gesture.

7. Do something unique so she will remember you as a reference. I can do a backflip standing......so that helps me.

8. Keep your bp lady review ratio at the same level or no more than double your verified independent count. Some ladies actually assume more bp reviews means ur less likely to be a returning client.

9. Do outcall if your nervous and seeing a non professional. Less risky most times. Don't reveal your room until they arrive on your floor....or give them the wrong room to survey the scene.....and make sure pics match.

10. Have fun. Don't take this post seriously.........or maybe....

1. Never let people know your new. They will take advantage any small way they can. Especially if your seeing a non verified lady.

2. Chose a lady who is not only a good references to others, but provides a proven one of a kind experience if it's a professional. Who you choose as references is just as important as who you see. They represent youin a sense....especially if your review them.

3. Until u get two refs.......butter up your reviews or don't even post one......some ladies are very sensitive if you are honest about your session. You can either tell it like it is, be the guy who is fully subjective, or the guy who only touches on the positive and butters up their reviews. Or the guy that focuses on the negative. The first two get you kudos. The later two make your reviews soft. Unless descriptive. Honesty is not always to your benefit during your first two newbie reviews and will gain u enemies with time......for no reason. Lol if she has a crooked front tooth......a missing eye.....but she sucks a mean dick and fucks you exquisitely well dont say nothing about the negative side much. Soldier it out. Let it go like the main characters song in the Disney movie Frozen. Try to word ur reviews in a way where you could honestly say it to her face and still maintain your testicular fortitude.....to match her ovarian audacity.......

4. If you have no intention on returning to see the initial two ladies you saw.......dont use them as a reference more than three times. Not all but some ladies get jelly if you use them as a ref to see other ladies. They will invent the excuse of well I saw him but it was so long ago.....i can't remember him.....but if u wanna see her again she has a selective memory and u seeing her is permissable.

5. Don't write any reviews.....and act like the new guy for a few verified independents. Pretend their your first. They will all show and prove for you and pander and cater to u. Thank them for seeing you and granting you pity screening due to the fact your a newbie. Lol.

6. Offer to bring her favorite bottle drink or spirit. Most times these ladies could use a stiff one before seeing most of us. She's will appreciate the gesture.

7. Do something unique so she will remember you as a reference. I can do a backflip standing......so that helps me.

8. Keep your bp lady review ratio at the same level or no more than double your verified independent count. Some ladies actually assume more bp reviews means ur less likely to be a returning client.

9. Do outcall if your nervous and seeing a non professional. Less risky most times. Don't reveal your room until they arrive on your floor....or give them the wrong room to survey the scene.....and make sure pics match.

10. Have fun. Don't take this post seriously.........or maybe.... Originally Posted by gimme_that

Thank you gimme that. Awesome feedback. Thanks to all of you.

Here's a stupid question.....how do I know they're verified?

Verified ladies obviously have reviews here from trusted members. Or they are on more than just this website via many other sites and p411. Some guys write better reviews than others. Usually I gear myself toward the reviewers who are of similar age and preference for ladies to myself. A review is only as good as the reviewer itself.

You can check my reviews for a template of the types of info to add.

If you see a BP lady use a BP cookie cutter site like this below.......even if they delete the ad u can still gain access to it several months later. Keeps your review relevant, and if the lady wants to upgrade to being verified here later on its easier.

http://www.escortprofile.xxx/neworle...phone-numbers/

You can search listed numbers.....all the way to the day it was posted.

When your reviews are helpful with time guys will offer you backchannel info, and give you access to under the radar ladies. Some ladies might message you too if they see you are fairly active in some areas. Especially touring ones.

Also.....try to peruse bp at least in full once a week. You dont need to seek the ladies out.... But watch for trends on who is often around that might interest you. Search arrest sites to make sure the lady you choose might not be part of a sting...or a deal. Avoid local trouble makers. Read alerts in close cities. Scammers usually travel to other areas in hopes no one is the wiser.

Not always a bad thing if you find a lady who is on an arrests site. Means she has just as much to lose as you. Choose wisely. Watch the offenses. Usually via bp their is a strong percentage of correlation between troublemakers on arrests sites and those ladies advertised via bp. The fine ones at least.


Use tineye.com to search for fake pics. There's other site's too.

...pay for premium access initially so you can read the ROS portion of the reviews. So you know what you're getting into before you set up an appointment and wind up being disappointed. And once you have dipped into the pool, write reviews to continue to keep the premium access available to do your research on your further forays into the hobby.

Might save you the time, trouble and money you might spend on the wrong provider.

I feel that BP is too risky. I would rather stick to the lovely independent ladies here on Eccie. Am I on the right track?

Good luck getting one to see ya...that's why a ton use us...like the seals of eccie "we go first" lol. However I do understand why indies are to so many liking. They gotta deal with sooooo much more then mine. And a hour is a hour. See I'm a firm believer in paying appropriately and what is agreed upon. For some reason that irks some...like we have the plague or something. Oh well. Happy hunting. Xxoo annie

I'm not looking based on cost. I am looking for a match. I agree that one gets what they pay for.

Captain, under the Main Menu, if you click on "User CP", you will find instructions for putting someone on 'Ignore'. I recommend it. Originally Posted by stavinChain

stavinChain you should have given her (captjillno) more advice than just telling her the instructions about the 'Ignore' feature

How do references work? Like, is the reference for your real world name? Phone or email only? Pseudoname or eccie handle?