Your first time...

Lately I seem to be seeing alot of newbies in my massage options and today I had a sweet man who I have been emailing for the past week and when he arrived I could tell he was stressed so I had him sit down, take a deep breath, offered him some water and spend some time just talking and he was so nervous he was moving so much giving a massage was very difficulty and trying for the happy ending was so NOT happening...I told him I couldn't accept his gift due to the fact I didn't feel I had fulfilled my role. I also told him that there was nothing wrong with taking time for himself and making him self happy and therefore the rest of his life would be in balance. So I got to thinking what about your first encounter..were you nervous,relaxed. What do you remember about your first time...

I was so excited and afraid both at the same time!

My first time was with a provider who eventually turned into a ATF.... I went expecting a massage and a happy ending and ended up with much much more............. I was very very nervous.... I remember saying to myself.... she is way prettier than I had hoped for .

I was fairly anxious my first time, which would be normal given that it was my first time with a provider. I was also very excited, as I found the provider very attractive/desirable and the thought of being with her was very arousing.

She aksed me if I was nervous, which I said that I was. She also admitted to feeling nervous as I was new with her and she wanted to make a good impression. We had a brief conversation about both being somewhat nervous, which hepled dissipate my anxiety.

For me, it turned out to be a great experience.

I was drunk

I was drunk Originally Posted by waverunner234

Honesty, I love it!

Honesty, I love it! Originally Posted by Still Looking

The rest of the story .......................... even worse than being drunk, maybe some day I will have the guts to tell you guys

The rest of the story .......................... even worse than being drunk, maybe some day I will have the guts to tell you guys Originally Posted by waverunner234

Ah, go ahead. I think its only Irish Vixen, SNL and me that are reading here? Its what we live for... give us the juice! Whats the worst thing that can happen?

Later, due to my hobby I was up all night and actually since Wednesday night so I need some sleep badly. Haven't had sleep in 3 days.

Which first time are we referring to? The first time with a provider, or the first time actually scoring with a provider?

Trust me, I had the opposite experience as IV's "nervous" customer. My first time with a provider, I used an escort agency and rented one of those No-tel Motel rooms that went $25 for the hour. We get to the room. The girl (who was smoking hot) went to freshen up and gave the obligatory request for me to get comfortable. I strip down to my undies. After about 5 minutes, she finally comes out of the bathroom and sees that I'm "over dressed". She pulls down my undies. We get on the bed, and she simply starts to caress me and I blow my load. This was well before the day of MSOG, so within 2 minutes, she's dressed and out the door. I have about a half a dozen other similar experiences from providers. Finally, I went to a "cat-house" where I finally was able to score before false starting. To top it off, she gave me a BJ as well after the initial sex.

I dressed up my hand to look like a girl hand; you know, like Bugs Bunny dresses up to look like a girl bunny. My hand had a little wig, some lipstick and fake eyelashes...hot. Yes, I was nervous but she told me to relax, offered me a drink...

Finally, I went to a "cat-house" where I finally was able to score before false starting. To top it off, she gave me a BJ as well after the initial sex. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Going to a Nevada brothel...yes, that's my next thing to make come true. I almost did it earlier this year, but chickened out. Now I'm gun ho about it....I say bring it on! Pahrump...2012?

My first time...I had an advantage of having been in the swinger lifestyle some years ago, so having a new companion to trade pleasure was old hat. Being used to having sex with women I had just met barely 5 minutes ago... But I was nervous. I was more nervous about "security"...I was afraid of the door potentially being beaten down and being hauled off literally, with my pants down! But I eased into it and got more comfortable as the session went on.

I had just gotten off a 24 hour shift as a paramedic. I was driving to the spa location and I could feel my heart racing. The thrill, the anxiety, not knowing what was going to happen, hoping that something good was about to happen.

First time sex, or first time hobby, or first time today?

First time, me and another guy from Michigan drove to a cat house in Toledo Ohio. We were 18 and scared to death. We went into the bar downstairs and asked the bartender, and he must have figured we were so young and scared that we couldn't be LE. We went upstairs and sat in chairs and they paraded out the girls and we picked one. I still see that guy when I visit Michigan and we always get a great laugh out of that night.