Stop trying to make a GFE a PSE!!!!!!

Over the past couple months, guys from Houston have made this such an issue I now feel the need to address it publicly. And as most of you who already know me know, I don't care if you think I'm a bitch.

PSE stands for Porn Star Experience. Basically, most of the nasty, freaky stuff you see in porno, you can expect from these providers. Most are wild, kinky and love to be pounded.

GFE stands for Girlfriend Experience. That means EXACTLY what it says. These types of providers will kiss you, massage you, discuss whatever is stressing you out, and make love to you.

These are two distinctly different kinds of experiences and providers. I have and always will be GFE. I don't enjoy being pounded to the point I'm in pain. So I purposely don't advertise as such. The issue I have run into is apparently guys either completely disregard this information, or they don't care. I have guys trying to fuck me to the point I am in so much pain I have had to end the session early and cancel anything else I had scheduled for the day. This is VERY rude and inconsiderate.

Put it in perspective for you fellas: let's say every time you contact a provider you inform them you have a latex allergy so you require non-latex condoms. Let's say you even remind them again prior to meeting. If you show up, money in hand, dick hard and ready to go, and she only has latex condoms, what do you do? And more importantly, why did she just blatantly ignore your request? Did she forget? Or does she simply not care? So you go through with it with the latex condom and end up with a dick so sore and raw, you can't use it again for a few days....

Welcome to my world fellas. Just because you're attracted to a girl that is GFE but like to fuck like a porn star, don't force that GFE to do that. Find a PSE that you're attracted too.

I just want girls who say GFE to allow DFKing, DATY and BBBJ as I would my girlfriend. So many say GFE but don't follow through. You're one of the few who do.

I prefer gfe, but have found most experinces to be a combo a both.

I'm sorry for your experience hon and I wholeheartedly Agree

GFE is a subjective term. There is no clear definition.

None of my girlfriends in my life had short sexual stamina or selective vaginal disabilities which prevented them from taking copious amounts of dick and/or a hearty fucking. Be GPS only (gentle pussy service).

If you don't prefer a more spirited type of rump session......just say that. But don't say guys are being pse when for some GFE might include that. You set your own rules, just be upfront with them.

Sounds like you've just had some guys who enjoy giving a girl a good hard pounding....and you don't care for that.

I always thougth PSE meant more things such as CIM, Greek, Toys etc...

I definitely gravitate toward GFE providers....but GFE to me means....BBBJ, DATY, DFK...how long and how hard you're fucking doesn't really matter...that is determined during the session and chemistry between the provider and hobbyist...

WE= wife experience. You get and nothing
GWE= good wife experience. You still get the , but you get laid good

try using the closer to you in a ad

now that is funny (wife experience) get enough of that shit at home lol

I get the opposite request. They all start out wanting PSE, but after a few visits they want to put a ring on it and go all GWE.

now that is funny (wife experience) get enough of that shit at home lol Originally Posted by altoidmaster

A few providers I been seeing for over 10 years. 2 are utr 1 I can review. I single, so getting the you spoiled brat is kinda fun. V day in bed in a way was awesome. Reminds me why I taint married. And reminds me if it flies, floats or fucks, rent or lease, never own.

hay you need a boat, I got one I want to sell
even if they are bitching asking for me to put back in the water

I get the opposite request. They all start out wanting PSE, but after a few visits they want to put a ring on it and go all GWE. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

will you marry me

oh wait never mind, you're one of the 3 f's

I get the opposite request. They all start out wanting PSE, but after a few visits they want to put a ring on it and go all GWE. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Exactly the same with me. I guess the lines get blurred...

One issue is that there are different definitions of PSE. For a lot of girls it means Greek. Since this thread will fade away, in your ads you could mention that you like it gentle. Then again, some guys just jackhammer every girl. It's how they fuck. It doesn't matter if she says GFE or PSE, or she tells them to be gentle.

Jaida,

I'd suggest just being more upfront with every dude that comes to see you...not everyone will read your profile, ads, or reviews.

Some will most likely just look at your showcase, see that ass of yours, and then the little head will take over


Next time a dude walks in and you have the slightest inclination that they are there to pound you into oblivion, just say....

"Look dude, if you're thinking about trying to beat this pussy up, you & your money can walk right out the door that you just came in"

...which prevented them from taking copious amounts of dick and/or a hearty fucking. Originally Posted by gimme_that

^^^^^^
That shit was funny....

Jaida, DED gives some great advice that I think will help with future sessions.

Personally, Porn Star/Girlfriend/Wife Experience doesn't interest me, I prefer the Romantic Experience