Ladies, how do u psyche ur selves up to provide great LFK/DFK/GFE with a perfect stranger?

Ladies, how do u psyche ur selves up to provide great LFK/DFK/GFE with a perfect stranger? Knowing quite well that this is what most of us hobbyist want...n what will probably bring u repeat business...knowing the client likely will b NO Tom Cruise.

I'm submitting this post to solicit advise from the more seasoned/experienced ladies here, so that the young/newbies learn from ur vast wealth of experience/wisdom.

My hope is to eliminate what happened to me recently with a young, beautiful, hour-glass figure, newbie (maybe too beautiful). After discussing the topic of LFK/DFK via multiple texts (n having read her reviews, all demonstrating true GFE), I show up n was quickly treated like a dead fish...only sporadic sister-like pecks, no GFE, zilch...not what I expected. I chalked it to up to youth/inexperience/shyness. Of course it could also have been I'm not young, average in more ways than one...n a bit overweight...lol. (Note: plz don't ask me to mention her handle here...I promised her I would not, but that she read the replies n thus learn from them).

Some of u may b thinking..."this fellow probably is another...Quasimodo..maybe..."

...but it made no difference to some of the wonderful ladies I've met here...for they all treated me like their long lost lover s soon s they met me at the door...they "had me at that first kiss/hug..." Personally, I will b forever grateful n appreciative for there unselfishness in sharing their lives with me...n bringing a lil-bit of heaven into my life. Here r a few:

SexxySabrina : http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=128420

Kendall4U : http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=126729

Sweet-treat69
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=82000

Cassandra L' Amore
https://www.preferred411.com/p27919

ChloeSmalls
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=140303

Madison may http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=1549

Pistol marks http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=152302

Myra
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=64166

Alexandriagonewild
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=152302

(Note: plz spare me the pimp/WK remarks, I'm just giving credit where credit is due.)

Most likely, many clients may b in the same boat s me...cause if I was young/good looking/n hung (like some clients here), Someone out there would b paying ME. Lol

I have to wonder though...these young ladies who decide to join this wonderful community, aren't they aware that the majority of their business will come from clients like me (old, fat, n not probably not that handsome)? Or r they naive n think they will b meeting up with the vast supply of Tom Cruises?? This dumbfounds me.

PS I'm also hoping this post will allow me to add to my list of ladies that r true GFE...

Being a provider for many years I can say the one thing is the lady would have to truly love what she does or it will not be enjoyable. Being horny and love to kiss is a must or it will not come across that you really enjoy and it will show.
Can not wait until I get back in awhile, I will be really ready!!!!
I use to say I would take an older, not so handsome guy anytime over a guy that thinks he is hot, hung and handsome any day. They make the best lovers.

Ladies, how do u psyche ur selves up to provide great LFK/DFK/GFE with a perfect stranger? Originally Posted by Gottahavit55

Because I have a naturally high sex drive

Because .........

For me it is about pleasure. A man's ability to please his partner has little to do with his outward appearance. I start every session with a new friend anticipating the pleasure we will give each other. Deep kisses, soft sighs and fingertips dancing across warm skin leads to intense passion. You just have to let go and be open to enjoying great, yummy, heart pounding glorious SEX!!!

Vodka

For me it is about pleasure. A man's ability to please his partner has little to do with his outward appearance. I start every session with a new friend anticipating the pleasure we will give each other. Deep kisses, soft sighs and fingertips dancing across warm skin leads to intense passion. You just have to let go and be open to enjoying great, yummy, heart pounding glorious SEX!!! Originally Posted by Find Your Joy

Wish all the ladies followed ur lead...thank u for posting.

If you can't dive in and really enjoy what you are doing..then you are in the wrong line of "work".

I am usually a nervous wreck before I meet someone for the first time...but as long as the gentlemen in question treats me like a human being, no "psyching myself up", is necessary.

There is just something really sexy about a man, who has the balls to meet someone that he may think is "out of his league". When he walks in and gives me a big hug and kiss, all that nervousness melts away and the fun begins.

I find touches, kisses and smiles attractive.. looks are on the bottom of the totem pole for me.

I have to agree with the statement that some of us are just born this way. I am a giver by nature.. so this was the perfect career choice for me. I am truly blessed to have such great friends!

If you can't dive in and really enjoy what you are doing..then you are in the wrong line of "work".
Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Perfect answer!

Vodka Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Ah, another excellent reason to be a martini drinker.

If you can't dive in and really enjoy what you are doing..then you are in the wrong line of "work".

I am usually a nervous wreck before I meet someone for the first time...but as long as the gentlemen in question treats me like a human being, no "psyching myself up", is necessary.

There is just something really sexy about a man, who has the balls to meet someone that he may think is "out of his league". When he walks in and gives me a big hug and kiss, all that nervousness melts away and the fun begins.

I find touches, kisses and smiles attractive.. looks are on the bottom of the totem pole for me.

I have to agree with the statement that some of us are just born this way. I am a giver by nature.. so this was the perfect career choice for me. I am truly blessed to have such great friends! Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Great answer Reese...u rock Precious! N thank u for telling me I've got "balls" ...because I'm always seeking to get what I rarely received in hs/college...😊

You'd be amazed the power Mr Franklin and his friends have. I'm just saying

I think Reese Foster is so awesome.

I think Reese Foster is so awesome. Originally Posted by oleguy

You are most certainly not alone. Maybe too awesome.

I go into each session with the attitude that I'm about to have a great sexy time. Attitude really is everything.

I'm also highly turned on by variety in sex partners so any pre session jitters disappear with the first kiss.

Hope this is helpful!