CBJ: a VALID question for the ladies here.

I see some of the providers here specify CBJ only.

I can respect that.

Their bodies, their health, their choice, their boundaries.

No problem there.

BUT here are my questions and issues with that and ladies, keep in mind that everyone of us guys you meet in the Hobby are different - not 2 of us are alike.

CBJ (for the ladies here who may be new in the business) means a woman will not perform oral sex or fellatio on a man without putting a condom on the man's penis first.

So the following applies to me:

It takes more than seeing a naked girl [no matter how hot she is] and more than some LFK and DFK and even some DATY to get JR up.

JR needs both visual and physical stimulations in order for it to wake up.

I am not 17-21 anymore where the wind barely blows and schwing!!

I had even watched some hot porn and it didn't even twitch.

And even a HJ (hand job) to get JR fully awake as a precursor to a CBJ doesn't always help.

I had some providers who have strong grips and grabbed it too hard or tug on it too hard.

Some of these girls especially the new ones from age 18- mid 20's, maybe due to possessing not enough sexual experience and not having handled too many penises prior to becoming a provider, don't know that when it's not fully awake yet, they can't grip it or pull it too hard:

it does hurt!!

We are very sensitive down there!

So here's my VALID question for the ladies:

How is a cover going to go on JR for a CBJ if it's not fully awake first?

What other methods (both visual and physical), that are pleasurable and stimulating to me as a guy, do you have to wake it up? so a cover can go on there for some BJ foreplay before the main event?

Thank you!

It's pretty difficult to put a condom on a softie.

Dirty talking, Russian(with lube), watching porn, dirty dancing are a few things that come to mind that don't involve a mouth. A cock ring works for some people.

Great topic....makes me realize how orally dependent I am. LOL

Put the condom in your mouth.. and put it on with your mouth. Then you roll it to where it needs to go, hold the condom at the bottom with your hand, continue to suck til
It gets hard.

To the OP - You’re screwed, time to take up golf for pleasure or blow your brains out!

I for one am not ‘Sensitive’ down there, I tell her she can squeeze that mother fucker as hard as she wants, something about cutting off that blood...Maybe you should consider getting him hard yourself by watching porn or her play with herself then put on a cock ring?

Or blow your brains out...lol

Thank you alaine and justjackie.



When did you become a lady, ManSlut?

In my opinion there is no such thing as a covered BJ. If a woman's going to give me a BJ there won't be a cover on it, just like I won't lick her puss through a female condom.

Put the condom in your mouth.. and put it on with your mouth. Then you roll it to where it needs to go, hold the condom at the bottom with your hand, continue to suck til
It gets hard. Originally Posted by justjackie

That is exactly how it is done. Also, it helps to put just a little lube in the tip before sliding it on.

...
When did you become a lady, ManSlut? Originally Posted by CG2014

I didn’t, I figured my ‘better than any Lesbian’ pussy eating skills got me past the doorman...You’re not psychologically ‘sensitive’ too, are you?

i can understand that lil cg requires more than basic stimulation to becum fully erect.
i can understand that some (many) providers dont know how to effectively deal w/ that situation.

i'm just wondering if you are seriously asking the providers here in the dfw area these questions
"... How is a cover going to go on JR for a CBJ if it's not fully awake first?

What other methods (both visual and physical), that are pleasurable and stimulating to me as a guy, do you have to wake it up? so a cover can go on there for some BJ foreplay before the main event? ...
because you do not have ANY ideas on how that can be accomplished.

or if you are just seeking new ideas that you can share w/ your next consulting fellatrix provider.

my suggestion - search for a great fellatrix who doesnt use condoms (avoids the covered cock fellatio problem) -or- ask the highly skilled covered cock fellatrixes.


(and no need to post "hey, pmd, When did you become a lady?" ... cos that doesnt work on me)

Just search for a provider who offers BBBJ (like me ��)
YMMV of course ❤️

Put the condom in your mouth.. and put it on with your mouth. Then you roll it to where it needs to go, hold the condom at the bottom with your hand, continue to suck til
It gets hard. Originally Posted by justjackie

You know your shit Miss Jackie

In my opinion there is no such thing as a covered BJ. If a woman's going to give me a BJ there won't be a cover on it, just like I won't lick her puss through a female condom. Originally Posted by johnclark

Amen!