Looking the links up now ...I have three different “harnesses “
1 true harness and 2 others are panties (with pocket for a bullet for your ladies pleasure while she pegs you ...give me a few and I’ll link them here
Don’t skimp on something cheap and off brand you’ll regret it
Assless panties: Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock - Panty Harness with Plug - Dual Strap - Compatible with all Vac-U-Lock Dildos - Large/Extra Large
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XB1GLQ5..._SjqYCbQGT1NK4
Regular brief panties: Vac-U-Lock Briefs Panty Harness Black S/M
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06X9ZZ37F..._8lqYCbS18Y60A
I really like the vaculock ...doc Johnson makes some really good toys overall for butt fun imo....I own at least 9 plugs that are sets and this is my newest purchase from doc Johnson : Doc Johnson Red Boy - Large Butt Plug - 5.2 in. Long and 2.2 in. Wide - Prostate Stimulating Anal Toy - For Intermediate to Advanced Anal Players - Designed to Provide a Full Feeling
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002QC7FQW..._qpqYCbBBYNWY8