question for all that are willing to answer

So how do u all feel about a ur significant other getting u a provider as a present?

I would suspect it was a trap, and I would likely get ensnared in it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F4qzPbcFiA

What if you knew it wasnt a trap lol guess it depends on the relationship but what if u knew it was an honest offer

I gave one of my utr's to my friend who is a utr as a bday present yesterday and it turned into the hottest 3some we have ever done. So if my wife was game then hell ya, but trust me she is not.

ok well here is the thing i have a spouse and obviously he knows that i am a provider well he does not partake in activities with other women he say whats the need when he has a girl like me at home but i want to open him up. his birthday and christmas are coming around the corner so i want to do it as a present for him. no strings attached id rather him be with a provider then a non provider thats for sure. we havent discussed it yet but i wanted to know other peoples take on it before i decided since im not sure if he realy means it when he says he doesnt want another girl lol or if hes just trying to be nice

If my loving bride offered to get me a provider it would mean that she and I had a long talk and suddenly after all these years decided to be honest with each other. We have a great relationship, so I see no reason for that to happen. If she did though I would accept and say thanks.

Nikki, your situation is a little different, being he knows what you do. He may say he doesn't want another woman, but he does. We all want another woman, always. I was looking at other women on my honeymoon. I've been swamped with sugar baby types and drop them for a new girl, just because she's new. Be careful though, if you start down that road you could create a monster. he might decide strange pussy is what he want's all the time. LOL,,, Let us know what you decide and how it goes.

but i wanted to know other peoples take on it before i decided since im not sure if he realy means it when he says he doesnt want another girl lol or if hes just trying to be nice Originally Posted by the.best.gfe.ever

I'm going with trying to be nice. No doubt in my mind.

welll we had the discussion today and he says that the reason he doesnt want a provider is because he has to wear a condom which he understands and is fine with because he does not know the girl but he cannot cum with a condom i kno this to be fact since we have had other girls in our room long ago with me he is my spouse and the only one i do not use protection with and we both get tested regularly so its different he basically said whats the point if he cant even get a nut n i wouldnt be there to finish it up it would be a waste of money so i see the delima but am trying to figure out where i go from here...i am the girl that aimes to please and he has full rain over any and everything we do and constantly want to make him happy as i should but also need to do it in a safe manner so im attempting to find a happy medium...i have no problem with him wanting strange all the time as long as he is still pleasing me out emotional bond is what holds us not the physical so that is not a concern of mine by far

So my question is -does it really matter?

He is at work, or out of the house and you invite a female over whether close friend or for you, a co-worker.

The two of you have some fun, someone snaps a selfie, it gets added to sext with the message "hurry home, we got started without you."

The issue of 'provider' doesn't come into play because the money never leaves his hand.

I don't cum when wearing a condom and that has never stopped me from fooling around.

It shouldn't stop him either unless it has to be cbj. But if you are there then he can have his cake and you can 'eat' it too.

the thing is i dont want to be there i dont want him to feel like he has limits i want to leave it to him so that he can do as he pleases without hesatation like he does when i am there and also i dont kno providers in the area i dont talk to many ppl at all ave been here less then a year where we lived befor hell we could have an orgie just in a phone call but i dont have those connections here kno what i mean

So now your dilemma is this... if you give him a provider, he's gonna want to do her bareback... putting you at risk of catching something... and giving it to your clients.

well yes and no...he doesnt mind wearing a condom since he does not kno the girl regardless of provider of friend but he says there is no point snce he cant cum with one on hed rather stick with me where he knos he taken care of...i guess in a way it excites me him being with another women so it would be a present for myself as well but it seems that the more i think of it maybe i should leave well enuff alone and let him tell me when hes ready or if he ever wants to

what im saying is the condom is not simply because its at my request its a demand of his own

OK, then give him a provider and after their session, you finish him off. Everyone satisfied.