Stood up by ECCIE providers??

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I have been stood up by three different ECCIE provider in the last 2 months. It might be because I can only play at lunchtime. I don't worry about it too much but I would rather a provider tell me up front that she can't or won't than to make an appointment then not answer any other message the day and time of the appointment. I always call to confirm an hour prior or earlier if I have to cancel. I wonder if this is just coincidence or I'm on some kind of bad list? Anyone else having this problem? The last one was yesterday!
It's happen to me plenty of times. I sometimes fill like getting on here and writing a review each time it happens, but I just go on to the next girl.
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Same here, I always have a backup available!
so we know who to avoid. Without naming names or handles what's the point of this thread?

After many years in the hobby I've only had one NCNS and that was with a provider traveling through NM from Denver to Arizona. Can't remember her name. P411 providers usually have good track records, and Gina gets on their case in a big way if they NCNS. I highly recommend P411 for reliable service, no hassles and drama.
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so we know who to avoid. Without naming names or handles what's the point of this thread?

After many years in the hobby I've only had one NCNS and that was with a provider traveling through NM from Denver to Arizona. Can't remember her name. P411 providers usually have good track records, and Gina gets on their case in a big way if they NCNS. I highly recommend P411 for reliable service, no hassles and drama. Originally Posted by SnorreS
My point was to ask if anyone else was having the same problem lately. I too have been in the hobby many years. I have used P411 in the past. I agree it is more reliable but based on my needs it is not needed. All three NCNS were travelers and as I do plenty of research on providers prior to first contact these providers have good track records. A NCNS is just a normal risk of the hobby and I don't get to worked up about it. Experience has taught me that a reliable local is always a good back-up plan.
I have found that happen quite often. It is always a risk, and because I have very limited time for this hobby, a NCNS or even contact until I get there, then cancel or reschedule is always a bummer. I will usually not try again when that happens as my time is valuable too. If they apologize and sound at least remotely sincere, I might give it another try, but honestly, I have been burned more than succeed in these situations. Just my personal experience.
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Never had a NCNS yet. Notice a some of ladies don't respond when I send a PM!
NM is a funny place to play in.
True that NM is a funny place to hobby, but I've found that local providers are in general reliable and good communicators. I never book from BP as a rule. Other ECCIE boards have lots of NCNS posts and complaints about no service. Goes both ways, and for a while a few years back I remember many complaints about client NCNS from traveling ladies.

I travel a lot and P411 is a sure way of getting things done without wasting time and money.
seasonedvet, I'm so sorry to hear that! You are one of my ATF and definitely deserve better! It has been happening to me too a lot in Houston. I hope your luck changes!
This is not just an ECCIE issue. I, too, don't book through BP but the no show happens in several venues, and not just New Mexico
Unfortunately the no call no shows happen on both ends of the spectrum from us providers I get a lot of gentleman that call and set things up and just never show up it would be nice but a simple text or call saying hey I can't make it plans changed I don't need an excuse but jeeze not saying anything and me passing up another appointment is bad business and as a businesswoman me losing business is definitely not a good thing in any aspect.
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I get ncns in Dallas so I avoid traveling there its a waste of time and money. Why prebook appointments then cancel uggh annoying. Sorry to here that you guys are getting ncns, but agree providers should at least let you know if she has to cancel.
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seasonedvet, I'm so sorry to hear that! You are one of my ATF and definitely deserve better! It has been happening to me too a lot in Houston. I hope your luck changes! Originally Posted by msmadison39
Thanks Madison! You continue to be one of the reasons I enjoy this hobby. See you soon..