Shy of some of my kinks

Danielle Reid's Avatar
I have a few kinks that I feel shy and basically afraid to tell anyone. I am on fetish sites and spoke to a few people but nothing came from it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I like being controlled, forced, taken...umm well the next level of that is what I want. I don't know, I don't expect anyone to actually understand what I'm after or to even respond. Just needed to make an attempt to get it out.
The 1000 mile journey begins with the first step.

You are doing the right thing. Talk about it. Let it out in a safe forum.

You do know exactly what you seek, only timid to say it out loud.. The next step is what I am referring to .

Try some verbal role play with someone. Over the phone so you have less hang ups then actually doing it. Move slowly towards it. But ...

It will always be there until you meet it face to face. The hunger wont leave....
Talk to me..we can discuss and explore
Chung Tran's Avatar
I like being controlled, forced, taken...umm well the next level of that is what I want. Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
I can start here with the control part.. get your black ass to Dallas!

we can work on the next steps after you get here
crimson's Avatar
I see no reason to be shy about what you describe... it is a fairly common fantasy.
I really want someone to do a mommy son fetish with me.
Guest010619's Avatar
I can probably help
It sounds like a rape fantasy and that is common enough in this world. How many men would you like to be involved?
Danielle Reid's Avatar
It sounds like a rape fantasy and that is common enough in this world. How many men would you like to be involved? Originally Posted by justabloke
All of the rape fantasy stuff I've seen were poorly planned. I've tried it before but the guys whimp out once I start resisting. It ruins the mood
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I can start here with the control part.. get your black ass to Dallas!

we can work on the next steps after you get here Originally Posted by Chung Tran
I might go back to Dallas but I got to get some planning done
breastfan's Avatar
Like anything else finding the right partner is the key and I don't think you'll have a problem with that. I think the rape fantasy is one that many have but will not admit, more on the gents side. Just respect each other boundaries
I wish you luck as it sounds very exciting
Jon[s]'s Avatar
Like anything else finding the right partner is the key and I don't think you'll have a problem with that. I think the rape fantasy is one that many have but will not admit, more on the gents side. Just respect each other boundaries
I wish you luck as it sounds very exciting Originally Posted by breastfan


This. No need to be shy. Just find the right partner, one where there is mutual respect for boundaries and just let loose. Live out and fulfill every fantasy... more than twice.
Chung Tran's Avatar
I might go back to Dallas but I got to get some planning done Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
I will get you face down naked across my lap, holding your wrists as you scream.. my tongue will insert into your black ass, and..

God Damn, I'm getting wood just typing this
I have a few kinks that I feel shy and basically afraid to tell anyone. I am on fetish sites and spoke to a few people but nothing came from it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I like being controlled, forced, taken...umm well the next level of that is what I want. I don't know, I don't expect anyone to actually understand what I'm after or to even respond. Just needed to make an attempt to get it out. Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
I understand completely. I am lucky to have recently found a partner who has similar desires so I have finally been able to experience my fantasies in a fulfilling way. As previous posters have stated, it is really about finding that right person who you can trust. Good luck on your journey and I hope you find all you're seeking.
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  • 11-05-2015, 01:58 PM
In your kinky fantasy, the main thing I would be concerned about is the recipient inadvertently getting hurt. You want the pursuer to "bring it' when it comes to necessary amount of force, that's fine, but if resistance is all out, he is going to have to overcome that amount.
Sounds like a real workout!