What makes a good Blow Job?

Lets see if we can't get some discussion going...

What's a good blow job and is there such a thing as a bad blow job?

A good blow job for me is:

1. Eye contact
2. The right amount of spit
3. Very little hand action
4. Pays close attention to the "boys"
5. Makes that cool POP sound when my cock comes out of her mouth

And...Yes there is such a thing as a bad blow job...more on that later.

LAP
For me it requires a lady. Then there is good, better and best. I am still trying to find one that fits in the good or better catagory.

In truth there are some that are bester than others.
Numero Uno : NO TEETH...

Other than that, I like eye contact, as long as they don't lose "sight" of the goal. I also love it when she's not in a hurry to make me bust it, but will take me to the edge, and know when to back off to make it last longer. A good mix of fast and slow. I like some hand work, as long as it's smooth with spit, and not dry. Some touch by the backdoor is nice, but no entrance.

but.... this is all just my opinion.
Rugburn's Avatar
AMEN!!! No Teeth. I got wounded a while back and put me out of commision for a couple of days. OUCH!!! Other than that hand action, little sloppy, and OMG.....that look!!
That.guy001's Avatar
AMEN!!! No Teeth. I got wounded a while back and put me out of commision for a couple of days. OUCH!!! Other than that hand action, little sloppy, and OMG.....that look!! Originally Posted by Rugburn
I too have been wounded. Don't treat it like a piece of beef jerky ladies! Haha! I never really thought about this until now. I didn't realize how different we were. That explains how some use techniques that I dont really care for.

Great subject LAP!
Eye contact, slow and deep, no hands......I can do that my self... ;-)
rgvpapi's Avatar
Chris Rock: "I like a woman who will suck my dick like it's got the antidote in it" LOL


for me, the nastier and sloppier the better...but she has to work her way up to it slowly...start off with some tongue strokes, with attention for the boys...then some light sucking and hand work....slow build up in tempo, some nasty talk and maybe slap her face with it...then some DT with tongue action at the base....more tempo buildup to full on, furious pace sucking and some sh*t-talking, telling me to paint her face...


yeah, that usually does the trick.
Brandy Devereaux.... HA
Knowing that your going to get one.... Shhhhit that's good enough for me! Yeah, dirty talk and those eyes looking back at me as she DT's also a plus. BTW why is it called a "blow" job?, should be called "suck till cum" job or STC job...
lookn4spice's Avatar
It's called Blow Job because in the end "There he Blows!!!"
Dick Diamond's Avatar

I love Fellatio!
Enthusiasm.
let me know you are enjoying.
eye contact while sucking me.
lick my whole shaft.
blowing hot breath all over my cock.
Deep throat.
Tease me,spit on it
rubbing my cock all over the ladies face.
love hand action while tongue swirls around the
head of my cock.
tease her make her beg for it.
dirty talk.
and suck,suck,suck.
oh yeah just like that,just like that and I'm gonna cum,oh fuck yeah BABY I'M GONNA CUM!
oh yeah I love Fellatio!
rjdiner's Avatar
Good post and even though I'm late I'll weigh in.

I agree with the NO TEETH comments.

1.A good Bj is always bareback
2. starts with lite kissing and tongue work on the head and up and down the shaft
3. eye contact is constant and with a dreamy eyed look
4. during the licking/kissing phase she tells you how much she like "your" cock in her mouth
5. the sucking phase should be slow and with each stroke she take more of your shaft and lubricates it with more saliva
6. filthy, slut whore talk as she picks up the pace about how much she wants your cum
7 finally, NQNS, nothing says love like swallowing my load

oops, gotta go, time to take a shower
TrulySummer's Avatar
A great BJ should be able to be adapted to the reciever of it. Some like it slow and some like it fast. Some like for you change the speed. I personally like to start of slow and build up speed and then slow it back down again and then pick up speed one more time...

When you come I love when you are to the back of the throat and come up off the bed...

That is why they call is NQNS baby...
  • Chloe
  • 01-25-2010, 11:44 PM
HMMM . . . I love the advise boys! This is just like my pussy response thread in upstate newyork! Here are my do's for that area on a man!

1. Every dick is different so taking it all in may not be an option Hands are used to provide only either direction or prevent choking lol.

2. Always a lot of spit with more than tease action.

3. Get to know a man . . . is he someone who gets off quick or is he viagra man nd can't get off fast? Take it slow and do not get too intense a guy does not want to blow before time if he is a one pop and a mpop wants muti-experience in that area.

4. Make it a necessity! A man wants you to take him into you and the best way is to take him into your mouth Enjoy! Worship! Make out with it! It gets me so wet when I do that and get a nice response!

5. Do some research girls. Know the most sensitive areas and do more . .. go down! If a man is clean and shaved there should be no limit on your tongue action

6. Know that the multiple personality you are dealing with is that guy down below and he deserves your all!!!
And afterwards, don't just jump up and run to the bathroom or whatever. Hold him in your mouth until his toes uncurl, move softly and gently, the equivilent of holding each other after great sex.